worked all his life for his parents, but in the end he was treated as an enemy by the children he raised. My cousin and I met in a small square nearby, and as soon as we met, my cousin threw herself on my shoulder and wept bitterly, attracting strange glances from people walking around. I urgently pulled my cousin to sit on a small stone bench next to me, handed her toilet paper, and asked her to wipe away her tears. It was only when she calmed down a little that I asked her what was going on. The cousin sighed, choked up and said, "The children raised by others are filial to their parents, but I raised a white-eyed wolf, why is my life so bitter!."She burst into tears. I hurriedly comforted her and said: "You husband and wife have responded to Xiaogang's requests since childhood, he has never suffered anything, let him suffer a little, and he knows how good you are." The cousin wiped away her tears and said, "When he got married, I bought him a house and a car, and we spent all our savings on him, but he took it for granted. He also said that whose children get married, parents don't buy a house or a car, what is there to say about buying a house and a car.
He asked me to help him look after the children, and I left your brother-in-law at home and stayed at his house to take care of the grandchildren. I served their family of three like a nanny at his house, and I washed their clothes and his socks and trousers, but he was always noisy with me, and he didn't have a good face for me, and when I said a word, he would refute me three times, so that I didn't even dare to speak now. I said, "Then you go home and don't help them watch the children anymore and let them take all the responsibility themselves!"The cousin said, "I'm gone, what about the child?"Both of them go to work, and their grandson can't be left unattended. I said, "Don't let go of your grandson, work more and be less nosy, endure until your grandson goes to kindergarten, and the day of freedom will come."
My cousin said, "You don't know that my son finds fault with me every day, thinks I mop the floor uncleanly, disturbs their rest by calling them to eat in the morning, changes his grandson's diaper and is not diligent enough, and makes his grandson's ass red, anyway, I don't do anything right, he can always find out my fault." She continued: "When I was feeding my grandson porridge tonight, I tested the temperature of the rice with my tongue to see if it was hot enough, and my son suddenly threw the bowl on the ground, saying that it was unhygienic for me to put the rice in my mouth and try to feed the child, and slapped myself a few times. "When my son and daughter-in-law saw me slapping my face, they walked into the house with the child without paying attention. I couldn't vent my emotions at home, so I had to come to you to confide in me. I watched my cousin leave angrily and persuaded her, "You know your son, don't be angry, come back to my house with me tonight to sleep." The cousin shook her head and said, "I'm not going, they should both go to work tomorrow, and I have to take care of my grandson." She finished and left.
Looking at her back, I have mixed feelings, parents want their children to know how to be grateful, but why do children take their parents' efforts for granted, and instead regard the grace of parenting as hatred?It's really sad to be a parent!It seems that in old age, no one can be relied on, and in the end you have to rely on yourself.