After that war, I wasn't in the right place. But I also want to thank my father-in-law for the war, otherwise I would still be living in the illusion of a happy and harmonious family that I have created for myself while making compromises and deceiving myself.
Woe is the place on which blessing rests;Blessings lurk in disguise. There are two sides to everything. In addition to the great pain that the war brought me, there was a great gain for me, and I seemed to wake up suddenly. Realize that a happy and harmonious family state is never about sacrificing one to fulfill the other, but should be the result of running in both directions and achieving together.
The trivialities of life in the past few years have made me lose my whole person, and I don't want to be my former self at all. Now I may have more worries, become forward-looking, timid, sometimes irritable, sometimes depressed and anxious, without love, without persistence, like a walking corpse mechanically repeating endless chores day by day.
Looking at the past, I am still the one who dared to fight and had light in my eyes. Life is already very hard, so why not make my life happier, I began to try to find my original self. Subconsciously, I always feel that people can be influenced, thinking that as long as I am good to others, others will be good to me. But he forgot the selfishness of human nature, like a deep ocean, enough to swallow your kindness little by little, and make you struggle in the gray abyss, while he is a proud bystander standing on the shore.
That day, I went to eat KFC with the girl. The mother of a boy next to her chattered about the murder of the child, and after the murder, the child began to murder her husband again, and the meal ordered was not good, and there were no small things such as straws. It could be felt that the meal she ate was unpleasant. From her, I seem to see myself half a year ago. Every woman who walks into marriage doesn't want her husband to sing with her wife, her children to be well-behaved, and she to be kind and auspicious. But there will always be selfish people in life who harm others in order to achieve the unshitable little Jiujiu in their hearts. We must know how to love others before loving ourselves, and choose others before asking our hearts. There are no games in adult life, and if a person continues to make you unhappy, there is a high probability that your ideas, choices, and goals will be in opposite directions, no matter how close the relationship is, and stay away. Also, there are ten things that are unsatisfactory in life, instead of thinking about the pain, it is better to cherish the remaining happiness and manage the present and even the future days.
Mentality determines the pattern, and the pattern determines the destiny. Don't worry too much about the present, don't worry too much about the future, when you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is not the same as before.
When you become a better version of yourself, you can meet better others, and you can be worthy of this upheaval and displacement.
2023 is coming to an end, this year, while walking, while collapsing, while **, while relieved;
2024 is coming, this year, all the way to the rush, all the way to rejoice, all the way to the walk, all the way to the scenery!
The days to come are new, and no one is allowed to look back. Live a colorful life, do meaningful things, live a better version of yourself, come on, girl!