This is a very complex question, and there is no easy answer because everyone's situation and values are different. Some people will choose love, believing that love is the most important factor in marriage and that a marriage without love is immoral. They believe that on the basis of love, two people can overcome the difficulties and challenges in life together.
In Zhang Ailing's ** "Red Rose and White Rose", the heroine Wang Jiarui can ignore the difficulties and challenges in reality in order to pursue her love. In order to be with her beloved, she did not hesitate to give up her family and career, and was even willing to bear the condemnation and pressure of society. She believes that love is supreme and that only love can make her feel truly happy and satisfied.
However, in real life, ignoring reality to pursue love can bring a lot of problems and consequences. For example, economic difficulties, family and social incomprehension, emotional instability, and so on. These questions can make people feel confused and helpless, and may even lead to eventual disappointment and regret. The impact of the economy on marriage is significant. In many cases, financial conditions are one of the important foundations of marriage.
For example, pre-wedding preparations: pre-wedding preparations need to spend a certain amount of economic costs, including wedding planning, wedding photography, wedding room decoration, etc. If the economic conditions are not good, it may cause certain pressure and difficulties in the preparation before marriage.
Another example is married life: financial support is an indispensable cornerstone of married life. It bears the daily expenses of the family, the raising and education of children, and the maintenance expenses of the elderly. If both spouses are financially unable to do so, it can lead to a lot of troubles and frictions in married life.
Therefore, I believe that while pursuing love, it is also necessary to take into account the factor of reality. Although love is important, the difficulties and challenges in real life also need to be faced and overcome seriously. A healthy, stable, and happy marriage can only be built on the basis of a balance between love and reality.