In the fog of emotion, we are always searching for the truth of each other's hearts. Especially for middle-aged women, they have experienced the precipitation of the years, and the expression of emotions is more restrained and deep. When a middle-aged woman is with you, if she is reluctant to give the following 6 things, maybe her feelings for you are not as deep as you wish.
First, her time.
Time is the most valuable asset, and this is especially true for middle-aged women. They often have successful careers and families to take care of, so time becomes especially valuable. If a middle-aged woman is always busy as an excuse and is unwilling to make time for you, then in her mind, you may not be the one who deserves her time and energy.
Mr. Li pursued a middle-aged woman, Ms. Zhao, who always refused Mr. Li's invitations on the grounds that she was busy with work. Mr. Li gradually discovered that Ms. Zhao was not really short of time, but unwilling to spend time on him. In the end, Mr. Li understood Ms. Zhao's true intentions and chose to let go.
Second, her concern.
Middle-aged women are usually good at reading words and feelings, and know how to care about people. If she is indifferent to your joys and sorrows, and is stingy in giving care and support even when you are in trouble, then she may not really care about you.
Mr. Zhang has been dating Ms. Wang, a middle-aged woman, for a long time, but Ms. Wang has always been indifferent to his life. Once, when Mr. Zhang encountered a setback at work, Ms. Wang only comforted him perfunctorily. Mr. Zhang was deeply disappointed and finally chose to end the relationship.
3. Her trust.
Trust is the cornerstone of emotion. If a middle-aged woman always maintains a defensive and suspicious attitude when dealing with you, and is unwilling to open up to you and share her joys, sorrows, and past experiences, then she may not fully trust you.
Mr. Liu and Ms. Chen, a middle-aged woman, have known each other for a long time, but Ms. Chen has always maintained a sense of distance from him. Mr. Lau gradually discovered that Ms. Chan had never really trusted him, and even made irresponsible remarks about his friends and family behind his back. In the end, Mr. Liu couldn't stand this distrust and chose to leave.
Fourth, her respect.
Respect is an integral part of relationships. If a middle-aged woman often shows a contemptuous or neglectful attitude when dealing with you, dismissive of your opinions and feelings, then she may not really respect you.
Mr. Zhou always felt inferior when he was with Ms. Yang, a middle-aged woman. Ms. Yang often showed disdain and contempt for Mr. Zhou in words and deeds. Mr. Zhou finally chose to leave the relationship in order to maintain his dignity and self-esteem.
Fifth, her understanding.
Understanding is an important part of emotional communication. A middle-aged woman may not really understand you when she is unwilling to put herself in your shoes to understand your needs and feelings, or when she reacts too coldly and heartlessly to your actions and emotions.
Mr. Wu always felt lonely and helpless when he was with Ms. Zheng, a middle-aged woman. Ms. Cheng rarely cared about Mr. Wu's inner world and emotional needs, and even when Mr. Wu took the initiative to seek understanding and comfort, she always showed an impatient and indifferent attitude. Mr. Wu eventually realizes that Ms. Zheng doesn't really understand, and he chooses to find someone who can understand him better.
Sixth, her future.
If a middle-aged woman is always vague or deliberately avoids the topic when planning her future with you, then she may not have you included you in her future plans. For a middle-aged woman, stability and happiness in her future life are crucial, and if she is not willing to plan her future with you, then she may not have deep feelings for you.
Mr. Kwok has been in love with Ms. Xu, a middle-aged woman, for many years, but when Mr. Kwok proposes the idea of getting married and planning for the future together, Ms. Koh always talks about him or changes the subject. Mr. Kwok gradually realized that Ms. Xu had not really thought about the future of the two, and the two eventually parted ways.
In conclusion, when a middle-aged woman is reluctant to give you these 6 things, you may need to re-examine your relationship and think about her true feelings for you. In the world of emotions, sincerity and trust are crucial, and only when both parties are willing to give to each other can we create a better future together. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish those who are willing to give us time, care, trust, respect, understanding and the future, because such feelings are sincere and valuable.