Jia FuGrand View GardenAfter the gambling incident, it caused an uproar. The most striking thing about this incident is:Xue BaochaiMrs. WangwithJia MuThe position and attitude of the trio. Grand View GardenThe act of gambling has long been the beginningXue BaochaiThe mother-in-law in the room revealed. Baochai sent someone to giveLin DaiyuWhen delivering bird's nest, the mother-in-law called herself the "head family" and revealedGrand View GardenGambling information, Daiyu also got some gambling money after learning about it. However, inJia MuWhen checking the gambling money, this mother-in-law wasNot thereHead home, apparently beenXue BaochaiArrange ahead for not to gamble. WhileMrs. WangAfter his illness, he arranged for Li Kun and Tan Chun to supervise the housework, but asked Baochai to assist in inspecting various deficiencies and was responsible for finding and solving problems. Mrs. Wangdidn't really want to solve the gambling problem, just told Baochai to help watch and don't let itJia MuKnow. Baochai must have won this task, so he didn't let the mother-in-law of Luwuyuan participate in gambling. But Baochai's actions are nothing more than a greedy mentality, and she should treat this issue from the position of the head of the family.
Jia MuBeing able to see the harm of gambling incidents shows that she has a very strong sense of belonging to Jiafu, and she really wants Jiafu to be good. Jia MuThe position of the Eja Province is deliberate, recognizes the harmfulness of this incident, and expresses a serious warning about it. She believes that playing and gambling can cause other problems at night, leading to theft and bad behavior, and it can also threaten everyone's safety. Jia MuNot only does he have a high degree of vigilance, but he is also able to weigh the pros and cons from the position of Jiafu in order to achieve the best outcome. withMrs. WangWang XifengwithXue Baochaicomparatively,Jia MuHave a true ownership spirit and be able to lead by example.
Mrs. WangThe position is very ridiculous, she can not really fulfill the responsibilities of the mistress of a family. She is selfish, only cares about maximizing her personal interests, and does not care about the life and death of the Jia family. She knew that a group of servants ate and gambled every day, but she pretended not to know, and asked Baochai to help watch it, but she didn't let itJia MuKnow the truth. She only cares about her own face and interests, and has no understanding or concern about the situation in Jiafu. Such a hostess makes people wonder if she is suitable for this important role in Jiafu, and how can the people below serve her wholeheartedly?
Xue BaochaiAs the daughter of the royal palace, she did not show a good side. Although she took off her mother-in-law to participate in gambling, she let the other mother-in-law behave in her way. The mother-in-law gambled at night, shuttling back and forth, but she did not fulfill her duty of inspection. She failed to do soMrs. Wangdid not conscientiously perform his duties, resulting in a trivial matter getting bigger and bigger, but the most harmful thing was Jiafu, and it had nothing to do with Baochai itself. Jia MuBlame Baochai andMrs. Wangtimes, it was arguedJia TanchunAlso in housekeeping affairs, why not criticize her?ActuallyJia Tanchunsaid that she was in charge, but she didn't expect the problem to be so serious, and her housekeeper had a lot of affairs, so it was not necessary for Baochai to be in charge of the inspection. Fourth, the selfishness of the daughter of the Wang family and the harm to Jiafu.
Mrs. WangwithWang Xifengis not a real home to Jiafu, and he doesn't care about the life and death of Jiafu. Mrs. WangForgetting that she is the mistress of this house, it is obviously her duty and responsibility to manage and protect the safety and interests of Jiafu, but she does not want to forge ahead, and lets her mother-in-law andJia MuTake responsibility for the whole family. Wang XifengShe didn't regard Jiafu as her home, she just thought about how to get the most out of it. She desperately squeezed the things that were beneficial to herself, and desperately suppressed the things that were not beneficial to herself, completely ignoring the life and death of Jiafu.
This kind of selfish behavior and stance is typical of the daughters of the Wang family, thereforeXue BaochaiAs the daughter of Aunt Xue, the daughter of the Wang family, she was also affected by this education. Her principle in handling matters is "nothing to do with herself, hang high", only care about maximizing personal interests, and do not care about the interests of Jiafu. She is not suitable to be the daughter-in-law of the Jia family, because the harmony and good operation of a family need a good daughter-in-law to maintain, and if she marries a bad daughter-in-law, it is a misfortune for the family.