In the Sheng family, the well-known Mo Lan, the fourth girl with talent and appearance, has become the most regrettable girl. When she was unmarried, she was the darling of the Sheng family, loved by her father, doted on by her mother, and even the Sheng family's daughter-in-law, Rulan, was beyond her reach. However, the interlacing of fates has made Mo Lan's life trajectory go in an embarrassing direction.
Looking back at Mo Lan's upbringing, we can see that she had three opportunities to change her fate, but why did she fail to seize these opportunities?
1.Grandmother adopts granddaughter.
After Mrs. Sheng fell ill, Sheng Hong proposed *** on the one hand, to make a scene, and on the other hand, to help take care of the old lady. When Lin Yushuang learned about it, he immediately arranged for Mo Lan to be courteous. However, when she was reading a poem in front of her grandmother, the old lady interrupted her and told her mother to take her to a snack.
At this time, Mo Lan seemed a little uncomfortable, and wanted to continue reading poetry, but was interrupted by the old lady, which made her dissatisfied. If Mo Lan can change her perspective, understand the old lady's concern, and pay more attention to the communication with her grandmother while doing her filial piety, maybe she will not miss this opportunity to get closer to her grandmother.
2.Mama Kong teaches rules.
After a storm at home, Mama Kong was invited to teach the children the rules. In the flower arrangement class, Mo Lan stole the limelight from Rulan and caused a dispute. When teaching Mo Lan, Mama Kong mentioned the truth that "being smart is mistaken by being smart", trying to awaken her understanding of common prosperity and common loss. However, Mo Lan took these words as a deaf ear and insisted on his arrogance and cleverness. If she had humbly accepted the lesson and reflected on her own actions, perhaps she would not have made irreparable mistakes in the subsequent private meeting.
3.The choice of marriage events.
In front of Qi Heng's appearance, Mo Lan saw the honor of the Qi State Mansion one-sidedly, but ignored the arrogance of the county lord of Pingning and the gap in identity. She thought that she was the most worthy of the little grandfather, but she failed to see the gap between the identity of the Sheng family and the Duke of Qi. Overconfidence prevented her from properly assessing the actual situation and put her on a difficult path in her choice of marriage.
Mo Lan was resentful when she witnessed Qi Heng playing polo for Minglan on the polo field, regardless of the criticism of others. All this made her even more angry, thinking that she was better than Minglan in everything, but Minglan stole the limelight. After marrying into the Duke of Qi had no hope, she shifted her target to Liang Han, but was hit again. Her chase seems to be endless, but she fails to assess the situation and calmly analyze the situation.
In the end, Sheng Hong fell in love with Wen Yanjing, a poor son for Mo Lan, and Lin Yushuang and Mo Lan risked a private meeting with Liang Han in order to escape the hopeless dilemma of marrying into a wealthy family. As everyone knows, the Liang family is a tiger and wolf den, and Mo Lan failed to live the happy life she expected when she got married.
When it comes to marriage, learn to follow your heart instead of blindly chasing the glory of vanity. The most important thing is to let go of excessive concern about the outside world and live more freely.
Because of her strong self-esteem and arrogance, Mo Lan often can't see the opportunities around her and can't correctly assess her actual situation. She sees her sisters as competitors and wants to beat them, but she never understands that sisters can learn from each other's strengths and grow together. Every decision can make a difference in life, and if you choose wisely, you may be able to avoid some unnecessary regrets.
Destiny is like a huge canvas, and each of us is a stroke on the canvas. And Mo Lan may need to find her place again on this canvas and accept growth and change.