Introduction:
Recently, a hot discussion on the Internet sharply dissects the inner world of those women who step on two boats in plain and vivid language. She said: "A woman who steps on two boats, does she love her husband or a lover?"If she loves her husband, she won't cheat at all;If she is in love with her lover, then she will choose to divorce. Since she doesn't want to put it down on both sides, eating what is in the bowl and thinking about what is in the pot, it proves that she loves herself from beginning to end. This passage resonated with the majority of netizens, and also made those women in this contradictory state see their hearts clearly.
In this complicated world, there are always some women who have unknown romances while being married. This kind of chic at both ends seems beautiful, but in fact it is full of contradictions. Professor Chen Guo's remarks reveal the essence of this contradiction.
First of all, if a woman chooses to step on two boats, it means that she may not love her husband in her heart. If she really loves her husband, she will be good to him wholeheartedly and live their life wholeheartedly. Because she understands that love requires responsibility and dedication, and marriage requires loyalty and trust. If she loves her husband, then she will not cheat at all, because she understands the preciousness of marriage and knows the responsibility to the other half.
However, if a woman chooses to cheat, it means that she may love herself more in her heart. She longs for more attention and recognition, and longs to find the satisfaction of self-worth in her lover. A lover can give her romance, passion, and freshness, which marriage cannot give. Therefore, when she is in marriage and entangled with her lover at the same time, she is actually satisfying her own desires and needs.
However, this satisfaction was short-lived. The woman who eats the bowl and thinks about the pot seems to be chic and free, but in fact her heart is full of contradictions and uneasiness. She can neither let go of the stability and affection brought by marriage, nor the freshness and excitement brought by her lover. This contradiction leaves her torn between two men and unable to make a decision.
However, this wandering does not lead to true happiness. True happiness is to find your inner needs and be clear about your direction and purpose. If a woman really loves herself, then she should learn to cherish the marriage and family in front of her, and at the same time learn to respect her inner feelings. If she really likes someone else, then she should be brave enough to face reality and make the right choice.
If a woman is stepping on two boats, then she is actually satisfying her own desires and needs. And this satisfaction is only short-lived and does not lead to true happiness. True happiness requires us to be clear about our inner needs, learn to cherish what is in front of us, and at the same time be brave enough to face reality and make the right choices. Only in this way can we find true happiness and live our true selves.