The ship docked at the Shanghai Pudong Shipyard for repairs, and the hot summer made the crew go outside every day to find a cool place to sleep. In order to solve this problem, Dadian and I decided to buy a refrigerator for use on board. After we went to the ground, we bought a desktop water-cooled refrigerator with a few hundred yuan, and discussed that we would take it home and use it when we ran out. Although everyone is very busy during the day during the repair period, everyone will meet at night to go to a small restaurant for a drink, and every time the captain buys the wine, we make AA. However, in relationships, there are always times when something unpleasant happens. I'm with the shipyard'sMaintenanceThere was a conflict, and the other party had a bad attitude towards me, perhaps because he had a prejudice against me, or because other reasons were at play. I tried to communicate with him to solve the problem, but things didn't improve.
During the repair, I carefully measured the various cabins and drew a drawing of the repair and replacement, withMaintenanceCarry out handovers to better grasp the progress of the project. However, this shipyard'sMaintenanceThey are unimpressed by this, believing that it is not necessary to measure too carefully, because they are all based on estimates. While I realized that this might be redundant, I stuck to my approach and handed over the graphicsMaintenanceFor reference. However, after that, because of something, I was rightMaintenancegot angry, which led to even more tension between us.
In addition,MaintenanceThe cooperation with Haiwu was also not smooth, and the two often had disputes. Therefore,MaintenancePrefer to stay in the bottom office rather than work with the sea. After that, he even moved to the dormitory provided by the factory to work, and the atmosphere on the ship became much more relaxed.
In addition, during the rest time at the shipyard, some crew members go to the bathroom to take a shower and relax. Once, the captain took me to take a bath. After taking a shower, we went to the back hall to rest, where a movie was being played in the dim light. As soon as I lay down, someone came and sat on my lap, and they were just wrappedBath towelsto start hooking up and stroking. Since I wasn't interested in this kind of behavior, I kept rejecting their pestering. But instead of giving up, they pestered again and again. In the end, I was forced into a small room to meet their needs. Although the battle ended in the end, I felt powerless and defeated. When they saw the final payment, they found that there was an extra 150 yuan, which is their regular behavior. I realized that anyone who went to the hall to rest after taking a shower would not be immune from this kind of thing.
This adventurous and confusing experience made me deeply aware of the complexity and inadequacy of human nature. During the voyage, people may endure and endure many hardships and stresses, but after a while, various emotions and desires can come head-on and become uncontrollable. At the same time, it also shows the complexity of interpersonal relationships and the pursuit of power. Although on board you may be all colleagues, friendship and cooperation between people will also be tested in the face of interests and desires.
This experience also made me reflect on my own behavior and values. As the first mate, I should have been calm and professional, but I couldn't hold myself in front of this kind of **, and pursued momentary excitement and satisfaction. Not only did this go against my professional ethics and principles, but it also prevented me from truly being responsible for the crew and the ship. I should reflect on and correct my mistakes and try to restore my professional integrity and professionalism.
In the future, I hope to be able to be more determined to abide by professional ethics and rules, remain calm and professional, and be able to better manage interpersonal relationships, through good communication and cooperation, to complete the sailing mission together.