There are many reasons why rural girls want to avoid the countryside and marry away from the city. First of all, with the socio-economic development, cities provide more employment opportunities and better development prospects, which is very attractive to rural girls. Cities have more educational, medical, cultural and other resources that can provide better life and development opportunities for rural girls.
Second, rural girls want to avoid the constraints of the rural environment and traditional ideas. In rural areas, the traditional concept of gender roles is strong, and the status of women in the family and society is relatively low, which makes some rural girls feel constrained and dissatisfied. In contrast, cities are more open and inclusive, with more freedom and equal opportunities for women, making them ideal places for them to pursue freedom and equality.
In addition, some rural girls also hope to change their fate and living conditions through marriage. In rural areas, some families may not be able to provide better living conditions for their daughters due to economic difficulties or other reasons, while men in urban areas may have better economic conditions and social status, making cities an option for some rural girls seeking a better life.
However, there are also many challenges and risks associated with marrying in distant cities. First of all, adapting to a new environment and lifestyle takes time and effort. Rural girls may need to face different cultures and lifestyles in the city, and need to re-establish interpersonal relationships and their own social networks, which may be difficult and challenging for some people, and if they fail to choose, they may face a more miserable second half of their lives.
Second, competition and pressure in cities can be even greater. In cities, people are facing more employment and competitive pressures, and need to constantly improve their quality and ability to adapt to the changing social environment. This may be difficult and challenging for some rural girls, who still have a gap between urban and rural areas, and who do not have a natural advantage in many places.
Therefore, if rural girls want to avoid the countryside and marry away from the city, they need to fully consider their actual situation and ability, and carefully weigh the pros and cons. At the same time, they also need to actively adapt to the new environment, expand interpersonal relationships, and improve their own quality and ability, so as to better cope with the challenges and risks of marrying in distant cities.