Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge Because everything they do is not sincere from the heart, they just know the routine, and then use their ability to implement the routine. Maybe at first, many people will be confused and even moved by such an illusion, but in the end, after all, the paper can't hold the fire and can't stand the test of time.
People who can play the routine very well are actually well versed in human nature. The most obvious thing is that they can do a good job of doing the surface work flawlessly, so to speak, so that everyone around them will give them a thumbs up. And they also seem to enjoy the praise of others very much, and have a sense of achieving their purpose.
They are very good at superficiality, and everything they do must have an audience, that is, a bystander to witness. Only in this way can their desire and enthusiasm for performance be stimulated. Without an audience, without onlookers, their enthusiasm quickly cools, they become cold and detached, as if they were suddenly unrecognizable.
They can switch back and forth, weather or shine. When there are people, they are warm and generous, thoughtful and polite, like a polite person. However, when no one is around, they quickly switch to another mode, ignoring, serious and indifferent, and even condescending, unleashing their personal superiority without hesitation.
They just want the word of mouth of others, not how good they want to be for a certain person. Even if they change to another person, they can still look affectionate and sincere.
Such a person is wrapped in a thick mask, very deliberately hides his shortcomings, and then gives full play to his perfect side, creates a perfect persona, and then uses this persona to play routines.
Every step of their way is carefully choreographed, and they especially know how to prescribe the right medicine and then hit the needs of the other party. They seem to be good to that person, but only that person can really feel whether this kind of good is from the heart or acted. Because, feelings don't deceive, and intuition doesn't deceive.
They just regard this process of gaining the affection of others as a kind of game, come and go freely, do not fall into it, only enter the play when they appear, and then come out of the play immediately when they leave. They use such games to prove their charm and skills, and then quietly appreciate their results.
On the surface, it is a sugar-coated cannonball, but in fact, it is ruthless and unkind on the inside. They just want to be the manipulators, to control the emotions and moods of others, in order to obtain a sense of spiritual pleasure and satisfaction.
However, they are overconfident in themselves, thus underestimating others, revealing their purpose prematurely, and uncontrollable excitement. When others were uncomfortable, they actually showed imperceptible upward corners of their mouths, which was very inappropriate.
People with a heart will always find out, instead of continuing to deceive themselves, when nothing is seen, and then all the coincidences can be connected to form a very specific picture: that is, the person in front of him is most likely just pretending and performing. All the good, there is always a feeling that something is wrong, it turns out to be too accurate, the score is exactly the same, it is all cold, not hot. Of course, the routine is of course pitted, and only the heartfelt is hot and hot.
If you love to play routines and play with others like fools, then stay away from them, let them **go back and forth**, don't waste time, and send them off guard.