Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been difficult to get along with, but the most difficult to get along with is the old lady of the Bai family and her daughter-in-law Yang Jiuhong in "The Gate of the Mansion".
Old Mrs. Bai didn't accept Yang Jiuhong until she died, and she tried her best to shout out a sentence when she was dying: "Yang Jiuhong is not allowed to give me filial piety!.""Completely ruined Yang Jiuhong's hope.
Feudal society has "seven out" and "three no-go" for women, "seven out" is the reason for divorce of the wife, and the "three no-go" means that as long as the wife occupies any of them, she cannot take a break, and one of the "three no-go" is to wear filial piety for the husband's family.
Bai Wen's family did not allow Yang Jiuhong to wear filial piety, because he did not recognize Yang Jiuhong's identity at home until his death.
When Bai Wen's died, all the cats and dogs in the family wore filial piety, but only Yang Jiuhong couldn't. Before she died, she stepped on Yang Jiuhong's feet more, which made everyone in the family think that Yang Jiuhong was not as good as a dog.
How could Bai Wenshi treat Yang Jiuhong like this, did she really hate Yang Jiuhong?
At the beginning, when Bai Wen's family was ordered to be in danger, she turned the tide and single-handedly supported the Bai family, so that the Bai family from decline to revitalization, and she continued to defend the dignity and scenery of the Bai family with wisdom.
"Bai family" is not only a title for the family in Bai Wen's mind, but also a symbol of social status.
Since the Kangxi Yongzheng period, the Bai family has been a wealthy party, with power leaning towards the government and the opposition, and a large family with waist cards and grades awarded by the imperial court.
Born into a large family, Beth's environment and education were deeply rooted in class values.
Moreover, in that feudal society, the actors and prostitutes were among the ninth class, and their social status was even lower than that of the lowest class of commoners.
Bai Wenshi likes to listen to the famous actor Wan Xiaoju acting very much, but after his daughter Bai Yuting said that she would marry Wan Xiaoju as his wife, she obeyed her daughter's words on weekdays, but she was furious in front of the public and slapped Bai Yuting.
Bai Wenshi felt that his daughter's thinking was too ridiculous, and he was completely willing to degenerate.
There is still such a deep class gap for actors, let alone for prostitutes.
Bai Jingqi was taken to the brothel by the third uncle since she was a child, and Bai Wenshi found them, and when she left, she cried loudly, because she felt very aggrieved standing there.
For Yang Jiuhong, the kiln sister who is famous in Jinan, Bai Wenshi is reluctant to take a look, and he will not accept her entry into the Bai family.
So when he knew that Yang Jiuhong was pregnant, and he really couldn't resist his son, Bai Wen's family almost didn't allow Yang Jiuhong to come in, but he refused to give her any title.
Not only that, Yang Jiuhong had a daughter, and Bai Wenshi immediately snatched the child and stayed aside to raise it personally.
In fact, there is also the deep meaning of Bai Wen's family, one is worried that Yang Jiuhong's mother will slowly compete for the Bai family's fame because of her son's wealth;Second, he is worried that his children will be discriminated against if they are taken away by Yang Jiuhong.
In the final analysis, Bai Wen's family felt that Yang Jiuhong was not worthy of raising the blood of the Bai family.
The Bai Wen family guards the foundation of the Bai family and inherits the Bai family style.
The Bai family spreads the world with benevolence and righteousness, and the door style of spreading the world with poetry and books has been well inherited in the hands of Bai Wen's family, and she will never tolerate anyone who wants to defile the lintel of the Bai family.
Although Bai Jingqi's wife Huang Chun is the illegitimate daughter of Gege, she is also an outstanding disciple and the daughter of a good family, but because she has a private agreement with Bai Jingqi for life, she has been taken in by Bai Wen's family for a long time.
Huang Chun and Bai Jingqi are childhood sweethearts.
In the turmoil, Bai Jingqi hid Huang Chun in the cellar, received a Western-style education in the church, and was inseparable from Bai Jingqi, fell in love with Bai Jingqi and volunteered to show his love to Bai Jingqi.
Without Ming Media marrying, he was with Bai Jingqi in private, and Huang Chun alone violated the Bai family's style and was not recognized by Bai Wen's family.
Although Bai Wen's family was not dissatisfied with Huang Chun's appearance and behavior, and none of his disciples were dissatisfied with their background, they still expelled Huang Chun and Bai Jingqi from the Bai family without hesitation when Huang Chun was pregnant.
Bai Wenshi felt that Huang Chun's behavior was the most undesirable way to insult the door style.
Afterwards, Huang Chun begged for a long time, and Bai Wenshi saw that she gave birth to grandchildren for herself, so she reluctantly invited her to enter the door.
Huang Chun is still there, and Yang Jiuhong and others with a background can't cross the threshold of Bai Wen's family.
Bai Wen's heaviest concern is that in the future, Jiuquan will be worthy of the trust of the ancestors and ancestors, keep the Bai family's industry, and carry forward the Bai family's lintel.
As a result, her son Bai Jingqi, who had a headache, deviated from the norm and went out of line, and even made insulting actions such as marrying Sister Yao.
Therefore, although Yang Jiuhong entered the Bai family and gave birth to offspring for the Bai family, Bai Wen's family did not admit it all his life, so this is not Bai Wen's style of maintaining the door.
Yang Jiuhong's life was firmly nailed to the pillar of shame of "Sister Yao", in the Bai family, her status could not be compared with that of a girl, she had no dignity in life, and Bai Wen's family was angry with her because Bai Jingqi had embarrassed the family.
Bai Wen's ability to revive the Bai family's business with her own strength is inseparable from her discernment.
After recognizing Chang Gonggong, he tried his best to entrap him, and finally brought Baicaotang back from the dead, and Chang Gonggong also became a noble man of the Bai family, and he was often helpful in critical moments.
From this point, it can be seen that Bai Wen's unique vision.
Bai Wen's family has always suppressed Yang Jiuhong, on the one hand, she can't see Yang Jiuhong's life experience at the moment, and on the other hand, she has already seen who Yang Jiuhong is.
Yang Jiuhong is very brave and very ambitious, and it can be seen from her thousands of miles from Jinan to Beijing to find Bai Jingqi that she is a difficult character to "provoke".
It turned out that Bai Wen's judgment was right, Yang Jiuhong's model was not high, and he put interests first everywhere when thinking about problems.
Yang Jiuhong is in the Bai family, Huang Chun is one of the few people who gave her a warm heart, after Huang Chun's death, she did not hesitate to slander Huaihua and Huang Chun's brother Huang Li in order to get rid of Bai Wen's gift to Bai Jingqi's aunt Huaihua, and did not miss Huang Chun's old love at all.
Later, Yang Jiuhong went to Kanto to run medicine alone, explaining the urgent need of the Bai family, but in fact, he had a bigger reason.
At that time, Mrs. Bai died, and Yang Jiuhong was no longer barrier-free, if she could make a great contribution to the Bai family, she was likely to win a place.
After arriving in Kanto, she also deliberately brought the locust flower, and took the opportunity to clash with the locust flower, until the locust flower was forced to die and live, showing viciousness.
In order to force her daughter to admit herself, she did not hesitate to snatch her daughter's son Kiki, so that she tasted the pain she suffered back then.
When the country was in crisis, Yang Jiuhong strongly advocated dedicating the secret recipe to the Japanese to live a stable life.
Although Yang Jiuhong and Xiangxiu came from a hard life, one sold himself as a prostitute and the other sold himself as a slave, but the two acted in a different way, no wonder the old lady loved and hated Xiangxiu.
If Yang Jiuhong really becomes the seventh wife, I am afraid that the fate of Baifu will completely change.
The old lady of the Bai family was kind and benevolent to people all her life, and she only did not change her old opinion of Yang Jiuhong until she died, which made her life miserable.
The reason for this is, on the one hand, people's inherent prejudices about Yang Jiuhong's life experience, and on the other hand, they also look down on Yang Jiuhong's model of life.