I, the post-70s Yutong Xinxin, three sisters and brothers, I am the eldest sister, and there is a sister and a brother. As soon as I looked at this sorting, I knew that my parents were patriarchal and unwilling to give birth to two daughters. The youngest was a son.
My parents are in their 70s, with a strong body, no ears and eyes, and live with my younger brother's family. The little brother grew up with thousands of pets. It started with my dad's generation.
My dad has three brothers, the youngest being my aunt. They are also prosperous in their life, but in their father's generation, every family is a daughter country. The uncle's family has three daughters and no sons. The second uncle's family has eight daughters (1 died young), and seven have no sons. My mom and I got my sister and me again, which made the whole family anxious. In Grandpa's words, the roots are going to be broken, and no one will take the household registration book. So when my mom got pregnant again, the whole family was looking forward to it, including my aunt who got married, and my aunt's family had a son, which was not our surname.
At that time, there was no B-ultrasound color ultrasound, and it was only judged by the experience of barefoot doctors. My mother said that when she was pregnant with her younger brother, she caught up with family planning, but the barefoot doctor told her that the baby must be a boy, and she also took the initiative to go to the village department of the brigade to vouch for it. At that time, the people were simple, and now it is estimated that there will be no little brother, in my mother's words, I didn't give a penny to others, I simply hope that our family has roots. In this way, the younger brother was born, and we called him "Heihu".
Black households do not have no hukou, they do not have land. At that time, the reform and opening up, the production was divided into households, and the younger brother belonged to the superbirth, and there was no fine, but there was no land.
But this black man eats the best and wears the best. Not only his parents were good to him, but also his grandparents, uncles and uncles were good to him. Some delicious food was secretly left for him. said that the girl was going to marry when she grew up, and she was a member of someone else's family, and she would count on him to go to the grave to burn paper money in the next hundred years. The more love my younger brother received, the greater the backlash, and my sister and I, as well as a few cousins of the same age, were jealous of him, and looked at him when they were not pleasing to the eye, and would clean him up when the elders were away, and warned him not to sue.
Slowly we all grew up, and the younger brother got married. His child has become the hope of the family again, but the younger brother is very open-minded. And he gave birth to a daughter, my little niece. Dad always persuaded him to have another son. The younger brother said, Dad, how much property do you need to inherit? At this time, Dad stopped squeaking.
Dad didn't have any property, but he had skills. When he was young, he learned the art of electrical welding and worked in a township enterprise. Later, the unit bought out the seniority, and my father opened a repair shop in the countryside. Point to it for my sister and I to go to college. The younger brother has no talent for reading, and after graduating from junior high school, he followed his father to learn the craft. Later, he also counted on this craft to support his family and provide for his little niece to go to college.
The little niece was brought up by my mother, and they all said that they were next generation. I really learned that my mother loved her granddaughter more than her own three children. My niece was in high school, and she said that the school food was not good, and she had a stomach ache after eating. My mom didn't say a word, and rented a house next to the school with my dad to accompany me. I cook three meals a day, and my niece's stomach problem is cured.
As long as my niece asks, she doesn't care what my little brother and sister think, and she does it on her behalf. I sometimes advise her that she is biological, and she is more concerned than you. On the surface, she said I knew, but she still went her own way.
The little niece has a really good relationship with her grandmother, after college. Every night, I give my grandmother a ** and talk about it for a while. During the winter and summer vacations, my grandmother was the first to know when she would come back, what time she would get on the train, and what time she would get home. My younger brother and sister told me that other people's girls are close to their mothers, and my girls are close to their grandmothers.
In a blink of an eye, her little niece graduated, and she said that she would not go to work in other places, so she chose a place close to home and close to her grandmother.
My little brother smiled and said, "Mom, you should cook for your granddaughter."
My mother knew that it was a joke: I am too old to do it, and it will be a mess to go again.
The little niece said, "Grandma, it's okay, when you are older, I will serve you."
I said, "Mom, why didn't I see you thinking so much about our three sisters and brothers, I don't know who is far away and who is close?"
My mother said: When you were young, your family was in difficulty, and she only thought about how to earn money, raised you, and provided you with education. Don't care about anything else. Now that my life is better, I'm older, and I can't help with anything else, so I can cook some food. Speaking of blood relatives, the granddaughter is her own family.
After talking for a long time, my daughter is still someone else's. Hahaha.