In life, we all know that filial piety to elderly parents is our duty and responsibility as children.
But some people are different, and they can't fulfill their filial piety responsibilities to their children to their disabled and poor parents.
Some people say that it is the son who is filial to his parents, and some people say that it is the daughter who is filial to her parents
Is it a son who honors his parents?Or is the daughter filial?
Today, I heard the story of a family in the village.
They are an ordinary and simple resident, with a son and a daughter, and now they are all grown up**, and they have their own families and children.
The age of the old couple is close to their old age, and the old couple is frugal in their daily life.
The income from his own land and fruit tree land is not only to meet the daily living expenses of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc.
The rest is saved as savings in case of future emergencies, or in cases of illness or disaster.
However, last winter, a serious illness caused the old man to pass away.
When the old man was dying, he left a total of 360,000 yuan in cash to the old lady.
After settling the old man's funeral, the old lady was left alone.
Alas, she wondered how to distribute this inheritance
She usually always has that traditional concept in her heart, what is it?
Kiss the son, love the son, and kiss the grandson.
And what about the daughter?In her concept, it has always been the girl who marries out, and the water that spills out.
In this way, she is under the influence of this patriarchal thinking.
What I began to remember, if the old man asked her to treat her children the same, she had already forgotten it to the clouds.
At this time, she made a very dangerous decision alone, which buried countless disasters for her future retirement life.
How did she distribute the 360,000 cash inheritance?
He gave his son a cash deposit of 300,000 yuan, and gave the rest of the money to his daughter and son-in-law.
The old lady also quietly told her daughter that before your father died, he specially asked me to leave you an inheritance of 60,000 yuan.
The daughter is very filial to her old mother, and when she sees her mother left, living alone, she feels a little distressed and loving in her heart.
So, the daughter took her mother into her own house and lived with her. At.
Such a peaceful normal life has passed for a while.
After the Spring Festival, the old people have the Xi of pressing their grandchildren and grandchildren every year. Year.
Here, the grandson is named Doudou, and the grandson is named Sasha by his daughter.
The children play together, talk and laugh, play games, and are bigger than that, bigger than their own rooms, and the air conditioner is powerful, etc.
The most important thing is that they also charge much more money than themselves and other children.
Sasha, the daughter of her daughter, who usually lives in the city, has a lot of money for the children because her mother-in-law and relatives are mostly in the city.
And the child Sasha has a relatively more sense of superiority.
Sasha boasted to her son's child Doudou again, saying that grandma gave my mother a red envelope of 60,000 yuan
At this time, Doudou showed a look of disdain and disdain, and said, What is 60,000?My grandmother gave my dad 300,000 in cash.
However, Tong Yan's unscrupulous words soon exploded between the two adults.
In this way, the matter of the old man's inheritance was finally made public among the sons and daughters.
When the son and daughter-in-law heard this, the son said to his mother, "If you give the 60,000 yuan inheritance to your daughter, why don't you give me the 60,000 yuan?"
After hearing this, the daughter and son-in-law here, after all, the daughter loves her mother very much, although she is a little dissatisfied, but she doesn't say anything. Too.
The son-in-law said to his mother-in-law, you give so much money to your son and daughter-in-law, you go to them, can they ignore your pension?
After the daughter-in-law over there heard about this, she directly said that she didn't have to come back, and let her daughter support her forever.
But after this incident, the son no longer cares about the old lady's pension and normal life.
From this, it can be seen that which daughter, son, is more filial to the elderly?
For a few inheritance money, you can see the degree of filial piety of the children.
As a parent, the most important thing is to have a bowl of water evenly, not biased.
As children, you can't just worry about the elderly's money, especially after the children get the money, they don't care about the elderly's pension.
This is very undesirable and completely violates the traditional virtues of respecting the elderly and filial piety of the Chinese nation.
What do you think about this issue?
Do you think it's a daughter who honors her parents?Or is it a son who honors his parents?
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