Recently, there has been a series of shocking **, a 27-year-old female singer was brutally killed after being stabbed to death by a fan. These two bloody incidents are a warning to people that love cannot be pursued by violent and extreme means, because forcing and hurting others will not lead to true happiness. We need to be sensible, respect the choices and wishes of others, and avoid going down the path of crime.
In one case in Shandong, two female kindergarten teachers were killed by one of their suitors. This suitor may have held a grudge because of the failure of the courtship, and used murder weapons such as knives and hammers to carry out a premeditated **. And in Malaysia, a 27-year-old female singer Xu Jialing also suffered a similar fate, she was stabbed to death by fans eight times in a row. Sadly, the day before she was killed, she had just finished taking wedding photos with her boyfriend. What these two cases have in common is that they are both hatreds that arise because of the rejection of the other party, and extreme measures are taken to treat the pursued. Such behavior is shocking and frightening, and we need to be thoughtful and follow the principles of love and respect.
In these two cases, we need to draw lessons from them. First of all, society has certain expectations and understanding of love. People want love to be beautiful and warm. However, it is important that love is based on voluntariness and mutual respect. When faced with rejection, we need to respect the other person's wishes and not fall into extreme emotions and behaviors. The rejection of the other party does not mean harm or insult to ourselves, we should remain rational and find a partner who is more suitable for us, rather than losing ourselves for impossible love.
Xu Jialing is a Chinese female singer-in-residence who has a certain reputation in Malaysia. However, in the public's perception, she is relatively unfamiliar. After this incident, it aroused widespread attention and discussion. According to the report, he is a man in his 40s who has been pestering Xu Jialing for a long time, but the woman has been not interested in him and insists on refusing and avoiding him. However, the man persevered in his pursuit. This kind of behavior is creepy, and we don't know why such a person would go to such an extreme point. He faked his intimate relationship with Xu Jialing and broke her defenses, which eventually led to this tragedy.
Xu Jialing's experience is deeply heartbroken and regrettable. The day before the incident, she had just taken wedding photos with her boyfriend, a happy and wonderful moment. However, fate changed dramatically in an instant. When her boyfriend received the news, he was extremely sad, his emotions had collapsed, and he had cried until there were no tears. For them, the joy of marriage that should have ushered in is destroyed by the bloody truth. It was an unprecedented blow and hurt for someone who lost a loved one, and it is impossible to imagine what kind of pain and grief her loved ones and friends have experienced. Together, we should mourn the loss of this young life.
This case has aroused strong concern and reflection in society. Netizens have said that in daily life, we should be wary of people with extreme personalities, especially for people we don't like, we should keep our distance and be cautious. We cannot afford to neglect our own safety and interests because of the pursuit of the other side. As a pursued, we have the right to choose, and we should not feel responsibility and guilt because of the other person's insistence, which is a healthy and positive attitude. At the same time, we must also learn to restrain our emotions and not be overly entangled and given to people who don't like us. Coercion and violence have never been expressions of love, and will only make the other person more disgusted and disgusted.
These two cases have brought profound lessons and warnings to people that love cannot be pursued by violent and extreme means. We need to be sensible and respectful of the choices and wishes of others to avoid falling into the path of crime. We should be wary of people with extreme personalities, maintain our sense of protection, and refrain from approaching and associating with them. Everyone has the right to choose, and even if they are rejected, they should not produce extreme emotions and behaviors, but know how to accept and let go. Love should be voluntary and equal, and true happiness can only be achieved on the basis of mutual respect and kindness. We should call on the society to pay attention to and attach importance to such problems, strengthen mental health education, improve people's ability to manage emotions and resolve conflicts, and jointly maintain social harmony and stability.