"Deteriorating friendship" is spreading quietly, and junior high school students are scumbags, but parents are indifferent
Junior high school is a critical period for learning and growth, and every move during adolescence is of great significance to the future of students.
In the age of students, nothing is more important than learning, especially after the concept of 55 diversions of the high school entrance examination was proposed, more and more parents pay attention to the junior high school life of students, for fear that students' grades will decline and they will be shunted to vocational high schools, which may ruin students' lives, which is the last thing parents want to see.
In the era of information technology, today's junior high school students are different from their parents' memories, they are more mature and know more, in addition to being playful, the phenomenon of "early love" also occurs frequently, which has aroused parents' concerns, but what many parents don't know is that the harm of "deteriorating friendship" is greater than that of early love, don't disagree.
"Spoiled friendship" is spreading among junior high school students, quietly making you a scumbag, and parents still don't think so. "Early love" is a forbidden thing for parents and schools, if a student is found to be in early love, waiting for the student may be to write a review, ask the parents, and be "mixed doubles" by the parents, which is very costly.
The little cute baby who participated in "Where Are You Going, Dad" before ** fell in love every day, and at the age of 14, he should be in junior high school, which sparked heated discussions among netizens, and even the father who was in a foreign country quickly returned to China, I believe that no parent can accept the early love of junior high school students, after all, at the same age, students should learn and grow up healthily, rather than experiencing the troubles of adults.
During adolescence, students are prone to have special feelings for the opposite sex, or mistakenly think that they like it, and parents need appropriate guidance and education.
For parents, students' early love seems to be "the sky is falling", which is difficult to accept and has to be solved head-on, which is also a particularly thorny problem, which needs to be solved by teachers and parents, after all, early love can bring a lot of harm, but now there is this kind of "deterioration friendship" is spreading among junior high school students, quietly making students become scumbags, and parents still don't think so.
What are the manifestations of "spoiled friendship"?Parents should pay attention. "Rely on your parents at home, go out with friends" is a saying that has been spread since ancient times, parents can help students solve all problems at home, and when they go to school, parents can't reach them, and students also need like-minded partners to become a help in life, but some friends bring the opposite.
Junior high school students are in a critical period of the construction of three views, the words and deeds of friends around them will have a profound impact on students, I don't know if you have found that friends who have been together for a long time, language methods, fonts and thoughts are very similar, but if students encounter "deterioration friendship", parents should pay more attention.
Strong personality.,And like the people around PUA.。 It is normal for some students to have a strong personality and be competitive in school or life, but if your strong friends suppress you everywhere, want to suppress you, or even humiliate you, students should pay attention to it, this friendship has deteriorated.
On the surface, he is not keen on learning, but he actually works harder than anyone else. Junior high school learning is the period when students lay the foundation, and they have just come into contact with physics, chemistry and other subjects, which require more attention from students. However, there are always some people who laugh at studying every day for wasting time, claiming that they don't write homework at all.
But when it comes to the exam, he can come out on top, not because he is smarter than you, but because he studies quietly in private, for fear that you will surpass him in academics. Isn't this kind of friendship that cannot encourage and progress each other "deteriorate"?
Encourage students to play games and compare games with kryptonite equipment. Nowadays, most students have mobile phones and are familiar with online games, and most students play games to relax and have occasional entertainment. However, some people are keen to play games and like to compete to see who has more kryptonite gear. Students' minds are relatively simple and susceptible to adverse influences.
When making friends, students should be careful not to be affected by "spoiled friendships". If you have been caught up in it and quietly turned you into a scumbag, parents should also pay attention to the student's friendship situation and actively cultivate upward friendships in order to promote the growth of the student.
The status of the high school entrance examination is rising, and students and parents should pay attention to the junior high school stage. In the past, parents did not pay much attention to the high school entrance examination, thinking that students could basically be admitted to high school, and the real problem was the college entrance examination. However, now that the concept of coordinated development of general vocational education has emerged, the 55 diversion policy of the high school entrance examination is difficult to reverse, and the status of the high school entrance examination is rising, students and parents should take the learning of junior high school seriously.
Junior high school is still the foundation period, and knowledge is relatively basic, and it is not difficult for students to be admitted to high school as long as they study hard. But many students don't care too much about this, and students need to face up to the problem. There is a big difference between the environment of vocational high schools and ordinary high schools in China, and it is not a good choice.
Junior high school students are no longer children, and they should understand the importance of the high school entrance examination, the diversion is cruel and realistic, and the promotion can only rely on the students' own efforts.
In today's society, academic qualifications are very important, and junior high school or technical secondary school education cannot meet the requirements of most positionsThere is only one main task for junior high school students: to study hard and strive to be admitted to a better high school, so that there will be unlimited possibilities in the future.
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