Some people come together as they walk.
There are even some people who get separated as they walk, and go their separate ways.
Love is pure and noble, unadulterated with substances. But life after marriage is trivial and plain, and it is inseparable from material.
Most people's marriages are not as good as they imagined, and different living habits, financial constraints, and mental or physical infidelity have all contributed to the current surge in divorce rates.
No one wants to be wronged anymore.
Those who are not married want to get married, and those who are married regret it.
Lin Huiyin said: "In fact, if you don't get married, you will regret it." The cats in the alleys are free, but they have no home;The dog in the wall has a home, but he has to bow his head for life, and there will be regrets in the multiple-choice question of life. But please remember, no matter how you choose, make a living before you love, love yourself before loving others, and if you don't have the financial ability, you will never recover. ”
Material things are the foundation of life, and all the troubles in life are often due to lack of money. As Lin Huiyin said, "If a person has no financial ability, he will never recover." ”
Money is getting harder and harder to earn, and life is becoming more and more stressful. It has become a problem to support yourself, and what to take to get married and what to take to raise the next generation.
Many of them have been to many weddings, many of whom have already left, and the shortest of them ended on their honeymoon.
There are more and more older young men and women, and now it seems that they are really thinking about it and realizing the true meaning of life.
Love is already scarce, so why give half of it to others.
The most beautiful love in this world is to love yourself.
Selfish, but **.
There are also many marriages that have long existed in name only, and the husband and wife have not had sex for many years. Or become good buddies with each other, or become the most familiar strangers.
I know a lot of such men and women, and they are also very open-minded. Don't be noisy, don't make noise, don't leave, just live with a simple gang, but there is no passion or love for each other.
It's also sad to think about.
Many people who are affectionate say that if there is an afterlife, they will never give up the whole forest for a tree, let alone give all their love to each other, and never keep it for themselves.
Hurt, heart-wrenching.
There is also the family that lost the independence and lived a life of tears all the time, which reminds me of how sad it must be for Zhu Ling's parents to lose two beloved daughters in 30 years.
Listening to Zhu Ling's father's helpless words "I've let it go", I instantly felt that life was too meaningless and boring.
There is no greater mourning than the death of the heart.
Life is really two or two wines, one or two sad and one or two sad.
It's more like the song sings: I sold my dream for three or two in exchange for three meals a day on the stove. Once upon a time, I suddenly missed the boy I used to shine with. Drink three or two three, dare not laugh at the passing years, do not respect the years and do not respect the sky, respect my sadness.
Have you ever wondered why you want to get married, just for the continuation of that life?
There is also a man in Shangrao, Jiangxi Province, who has been married for 16 years and has three babies, but none of them are biological and have no blood relationship with him.
Sorrow, shame!The greatest evil and deception in human nature.
But I have to say that this man can really endure it, and he can't bear what ordinary people can't bear, and his nest is dead.
If he really has the bloody nature of Zhang Buckle, he can also be called a man.
Let me ask the man: Do you still want to get married in this life?
Suddenly, I felt that Ms. Chi Shusheng, a deputy to the Heilongjiang Provincial People's Congress and a senior lawyer, submitted a proposal for legalization at the National People's Congress for nine consecutive years, which was practical and in line with life.
It's better to spend a huge sum of money to marry a wife who bears children for him. **
Now more and more parents are also thinking about it, no longer urging their children to get married, and more clearly opposing the young couple to have children, and no longer have the slightest hope for the future.
That day, I chatted with an eighty-year-old uncle, and when the uncle spoke, he had already agreed with his children that when he died, he would buy a cemetery and bury him directly at sea. Regardless of how much it costs to buy a cemetery, you have to pay a management fee every 20 years, and who will pay it after the children and grandchildren are gone?
Uncle can think about it and see it thoroughly.
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