Kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs, so we don't do good anymore?This phrase comes from an old proverb that refers to the cynicism and attacks of others despite our selfless efforts to help others. It's a frustrating phenomenon indeed, but how should we deal with it?Is that why we stop trying to do good?
This question is not an easy answer as there are many complex factors involved. First, we need to understand what "good deeds" really are, and what it really means to do good. In a sense, good deeds are a manifestation of selflessness, helping oneself at the same time by helping others. Doing good deeds can make us feel fulfilled and accomplished, while also enhancing our social skills and personal worth. However, this does not mean that we should help everyone or put our lives and work at a disadvantage.
We need to focus on balancing good intentions with protecting ourselves. First, we need to learn to identify who needs our help and who deserves our trust and support. We should avoid people who are constantly complaining, negative, or using us to help them achieve immoral ends. Secondly, when it comes to giving to others, we need to learn to set our own boundaries and standards. We should learn to say "no" and protect our time and energy. Finally, we need to build a healthy sense of self and self-worth, and not give up on what we want to do because of what others say.
We also need to realize that this world is not perfect and everyone has different values and interests. Some people may take advantage of our kindness or take our help for granted. However, this does not mean that we should lose faith and courage because of this. We need to stick to our beliefs and values and not be disturbed and influenced by the outside world. We should believe in the value and meaning of doing good deeds and be relentless in helping and supporting ourselves while protecting ourselves.
"It's really frustrating to be treated as a donkey's liver and lungs, but that's not a reason for us to give up on doing good." While balancing and protecting ourselves, we should hold on to our beliefs and values, believing in the value and meaning of doing good. Only through continuous trial and practice can we truly appreciate the true meaning of "good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil".
We can also solve the problem of "kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs" by changing the degree and adjusting the way of communication. Sometimes, the way we do good and communicate can lead to misunderstandings or unnecessary arguments. When helping others, we should respect their wishes and needs, and at the same time, we should also express our own ideas and positions. We can communicate with others in a calm, clear, and frank way to avoid misunderstandings or conflicts.
We can revolutionize the phenomenon of "kindness being treated as a donkey's liver and lungs" by encouraging and supporting others. Some people may suppress positive emotions within themselves or be afraid to express their thoughts and desires. We can give these people encouragement and support, stimulate their positive emotions and ideas, and make them feel more confident in expressing themselves. When we find that others are doing good, we can also give affirmation and support, encourage and motivate them to persevere. In this way, we can gradually change the phenomenon of "kindness being treated as a donkey's liver and lungs", and let kindness be truly recognized and respected. "Good intentions are treated as donkey livers and lungs" should not be a reason for us to stop doing good deeds, nor should it hinder our support and help for others. As long as we believe in the value and meaning of doing good deeds and help in a balanced and protective way, we can truly achieve the state of mind of "doing good deeds and accumulating virtue and enjoying them". At the same time, we can also gradually change the phenomenon of "kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs" by changing our degree and encouraging others, so that more people can benefit from our help and support, and make our society more full of love and warmth.