1.Someone else's excitement is always someone else's
Recently, Dong Yuhui's "small composition" incident has caused a lot of uproar, and it has been hot for several days, and the whole network has been discussing and analyzing.
Some people sighed: Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and literati are light.
Some people are upset: Dong Yuhui is the IP selected by Dongfang, and such indulgence will only chill the hearts of kind readers.
Some people directly attack the stakes: the greater the interests, the more prominent the contradictions will be......
There are really a lot of people who eat melons, and I am no exception, and I have picked up more than a dozen articles analyzing this incident in one go.
Until one comment cleared me up instantly.
What comments?That's it.
"A group of people with a monthly salary of 5,000 are heartbroken for those with an annual salary of 10 million. ”
Yes, I myself am still in dire straits, and I will even face unemployment next year, and food and clothing will be a problem by then.
It's crazy that I still have the leisure to eat other people's melons and watch other people's excitement.
It's true that I'm a little too detached from reality, caring about other people's affairs and ignoring my own real predicament.
The threat of unemployment makes me feel anxious, the problem of food and clothing also bothers me, there are so many real problems in front of me, but I don't have the slightest next step, but I am still there to judge the lives of others, what qualifications do I have?
How much money do others make, if they want to go to the highest level, how to develop in the future, does it have anything to do with me?
They are not my relatives and friends, and what they do will not affect me at all.
And I spent so much time eating melons, what a slap in the face.
2.Ordinary people should have the consciousness of ordinary people
It can't help but make me think:As an ordinary person, how should we deal with hot events and news?
Man has always been a social animal, and it is impossible to live alone in the deep mountains and old forests.
We need to build relationships with the people around us, and we also need to keep abreast of the general trends of the times and social hotspots.
After all, people live in situations and can't be blind to everything around them.
And the successes and achievements of others can also be an incentive to push us harder to pursue our goals.
However, we need to grasp the degree of perfection and not let other people's lives affect our decisions and actions.
In particular, entertainment gossip or strange things are often just an after-dinner conversation or joke, and it is not worth spending too much time and energy to study.
3.Ordinary people should keep a clear head
So how to do it?
We should focus on those things that have a real impact on us
For example, our career development, family life, health status, national events, policy hotspots, etc., are closely related to each of us.
We need to learn to sift through information and actively discard meaningless information
In today's highly developed social ** and the Internet, people are easily attracted by all kinds of information and entertainment gossip, and we can't let these meaningless information occupy our time and energy.
We need to learn to maintain a good attitude and avoid being affected by other people's lives.
Sometimes, we unconsciously take the success of others as our own standard, thus ignoring our own characteristics and strengths.
Not only does this make us feel anxious and lost, but it can also affect our professional and family lives.
In such an era of information big,Keeping a clear head is king.
A clear mind helps us to look rationally at everything around us;
It helps us to clarify the distractions of this world;
It also helps us to define our goals and pursuits and live our lives well. Dong Yuhui's small essay incident