My name is Xiaolan and I am 40 years old. I am a mother and a wife. My life seems to be happy, but it hides a secret that no one knows.
One day, my daughter Xiaoyun suddenly told me, "Mom, your dad cheated." "I was shocked, my heart was like a bolt from the blue. I can't believe it, I don't want to believe it, that the man I've loved for so many years would betray me.
During that time, I felt very painful. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat. I looked at myself in the mirror and I saw a tired woman. I knew that I couldn't go on like this, I had to find a way to solve the problem.
I began to reflect on our marriage, and I began to think about our past. I found that our problem was not cheating, but that the trust between us had broken down. I realized that if I wanted to save our marriage, I had to save our trust first.
So, I started communicating with my husband. I told him how I felt, and I told him how disappointed I was in him. He also told me about his mistakes, and he confessed his betrayal. We know that we need to work together to rebuild trust.
We started attending marriage counseling sessions together, and we started learning Xi how to communicate better. We started sharing our ideas together, and we started looking for solutions to problems together.
Slowly, our trust began to rebuild. We began to re-establish our intimacy. We began to rediscover our shared happiness.
Now, our marriage has returned to its former glory. Our trust has been rebuilt and our love has been rekindled. I know it's not easy, but I feel that if we work together, we can overcome anything.
The courage of love brought me to face this problem and allowed me to find a solution to it. I believe that as long as we don't give up, we can find our own happiness.
Now, my husband and I are out of that painful past and we have rediscovered our happiness. I know it takes time and effort, but I feel like it's worth it. Because we know that our love is worth cherishing, and our marriage is worth guarding.
Daughter, your dad cheatedIt was a pain that I could never have imagined, but I faced it bravely and I found a way around it. I hope this story will help you understand that no matter what difficulties you encounter, with courage, we can find happiness.