Love, that ubiquitous desire, is an inner human pursuit, a desire and longing to spend a lifetime with the person you love.
However, in real life, can this beautiful vision come true?
More importantly, how many emotions can stand the cruel test of time?
People often wonder how to measure whether a relationship lasts
In fact, the real test is often not in sweet words or perfect moments, but in the face of challenges and adversity, feeling emotional resilience and sincerity.
Love does not only exist in the wind and snow, but after the quarrel, it can still move forward hand in hand.
In daily life, it is inevitable that there will be moments when people have different ideas and different ideas.
This is not only the case for ordinary people, but also for public figures.
Chen Ming, who is known as the best debater of the national debate team, showed his tenacity and decisiveness in "Wonderful Sayings".
However, in family life, he admits that he has never been able to gain the upper hand in a quarrel with his wife.
Once accompanied his wife shopping, Chen Ming persuaded his wife to be frugal for a ** expensive bag.
However, in this dispute, the wife gets to the heart of the matter: what is more important to her?Is it material or does he have her in his heart?
Faced with the tears in his wife's eyes, Chen Ming chose to restrain his rationality, because he understood that the true value of feelings does not lie in quarrels, but in the attitude and warmth of each other after quarrels.
When healthy, feelings may continue to heat up, but when life puts them to the test, the true face of love is revealed. "
Sometimes, to truly understand the nature of feelings, it takes adversity to touch its true meaning.
Due to the high pressure of work, Linlin is often emotionally unstable and has frequent arguments with her husband.
It wasn't until one day, when she suffered from a herniated disc in her lumbar spine and her life fell into pain, that she really felt the change in her husband's attitude.
In the face of his wife's illness, the husband let go of his past stubbornness and took care of Xiaoxiao with his heart.
From supervising her workouts to preparing nutritious meals for her herself, her husband's transformation has made Linlin feel truly caring.
The illness is merciless, but it is also the most fragile moment of feelings, and it is also the time when true feelings are most revealed.
The most cherished thing about love is not the good times we experience together when we are rich, but the fact that we still work together to overcome difficulties in barren times.
People who truly love each other will not retreat because of adversity, but give firm companionship to the other person when they are most helpless.
Yang, the wife of the Tang Dynasty poet Du Fu, came from a wealthy background, but when Du Fu was displaced, she did not complain, but silently supported him.
Yang's perseverance and selfless sacrifice allowed the couple to remain with each other even in difficult times.
Love is not only a romantic sweet word in daily life, but also a firm determination to support each other and face each other together in adversity.
Life is full of twists and turns and challenges, and only relationships that can withstand the test of wind and rain can endure.
Love needs to be warm in quarrels, caring in illness, and true feelings in adversity.
Perhaps, what you need in the end is not only a partner, but also a confidant who can face the ups and downs of life with you and share the scenery of life.
Let us cherish and care for this precious emotion, and hope that it can spend this life and tomorrow with us, and continue to bloom with more moving brilliance.
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