PregnancyIt is a special time in every woman's life, however, until I experienced it myselfPregnancyIt was only in this process that I realized that I had been rightPregnancyHow naïve the view. Through two short but arduous onesPregnancyexperience, I deeply realized that I was once rightPregnancyignorance and prejudice. In this post, I will share what I have on both occasionsPregnancyThe various physical and psychological changes experienced in the process, as well as the maturity and reflection on oneself.
PregnancyIn the early days, I experienced a series of unbearable physical changes. At 5 weeks, I started to feel bloated, had no appetite at all, became extremely sensitive to the taste of food, and made people feel sick to their stomachs. I, who have never had acne, actually started to have acne, which was one of the scariest things for me. Also, what saddened me the most was that everyone knew that I was not feeling well, but they were only focused on my stomach, which made me feel very depressed and depressed. However, after the baby stopped giving birth on his own and underwent surgery, my body gradually returned to normal, and I felt the freedom and control of my own body again.
But all this didn't make me rightPregnancyThe hardships are understood. Until I experienced it for the first timeMorning sicknessIt was only then that I truly understood what it meant to be unable to control my body. I always thought beforeMorning sicknessIt's just that I have a poor appetite and occasionally vomit. However, inPregnancyDuring this time, I was very sensitive to what I ate, and even just hearing the name of the food could trigger a vomiting reaction. I started to dislike meat and greasy food, and I felt sick when I saw other people eating. UntilPregnancyAfter 4 months,Morning sicknessIt was only then that I gradually began to get better. Thankfully, my parents and colleagues were very caring and caring for me, which allowed me to get through this difficult time.
PregnancyIt's different for everyone, some people hardly have any reaction, and even the production goes very smoothly. And for me, the headaches caused by anemia made me almost unable to function andlife。A colleague of mine was about the same time as mePregnancy, but she lived a daily life of walking like flyinglife, and even at the time of production, everything went smoothly. This made me realize that everyone's constitution and experience are differentPregnancyThe experience is also different.
PregnancyNot just physical changes, but also with great psychological stress and emotional ups and downs. InPregnancyIn the beginning, I felt hopeless and wanted to give up. Painful every dayMorning sickness, loss of appetite, physical discomfort, I can barely stand it. I've been in a dream because of thatMorning sicknessAnd wake up, every time you are hungry and have to eat, but you will vomit after eating, and if you vomit, you need to eat, so you fall into a vicious circle. At the same time, I developed an aversion to meat and greasy food, and I felt very depressed and uncomfortable when I heard the sound of others eating. Thankfully, the people around me are very caring about me, especially my husband and colleagues, and their support and care have helped me through this difficult time.
However,PregnancyThe end does not mean that all the difficulties and hardships will also end. I experienced first-hand the fear of bleeding after childbirth that almost threatened my life, the pain of not being able to get out of bed and sit up for half a year, and the pain of my back for three years. Everyone's body and physique are unique, and I also recognize that. I have a colleague herePregnancyDuring this period, she needed to lie in bed and elevate her lower body, otherwise there was a risk of miscarriage, and the doctors advised her not to keep the child, but she persevered. In minePregnancyDuring the experience, I was fortunate to be able to continue to work and work under pressure, and I was able to complete a series of household chores on my own. In the process, I realized that everyone needs to make different choices based on their own circumstancesPregnancyThe process and experience also vary from person to person.
Through these two timesPregnancyI really felt itPregnancybrings about physical and psychological changes. I went from ignorance and naivety to a more mature and understanding person. Everyone'sPregnancyExperiences are unique, and no one can fully appreciate the pain and suffering of others. Therefore, when we talk about and evaluate othersPregnancyWhen we go through it, we should be filled with understanding and tolerance. At the same time, we should also cherish and respect it morePregnancyEverything women go through, providing them with care and support. PregnancyIt is not only a matter for women, but also a matter for families and society, and we should work together to build a warmer and more considerate social environment.