It is undoubtedly a situation of extreme pain and distress to find yourself a "pseudo-person", i.e., an empty human appearance and features, but lacking real human emotions and moral codes.
In this context, the first step is to reflect deeply on your own values and life goals, and to explore the root causes of this situation. Perhaps it is influenced by the external environment, such as family, friends, social background, etc.;Perhaps it stems from a personal psychological or spiritual problem. Whatever the cause, we need to confront it and find a solution.
Solving this problem will not happen overnight and will require a lot of effort and time.
First of all, we need to deeply understand ourselves, our inner world, and find out the true desires in our hearts. At the same time, we need to actively change our behavior and way of thinking, and learn to think and act more rationally. In this process, we can seek professional help and support, such as psychological counseling, **, etc. By communicating and learning from professionals, we can better understand ourselves and find ways to solve problems.
Finally, and crucially, we need to believe that we can change ourselves and become real people. Human emotions and moral codes are not innate, but are gradually formed in the process of growing up. With enough effort and time, we are able to reinvent our humanity and values and become truly meaningful individuals.