Hard work and luck in life have always been a topic of concern. And in the story of Xie Qingshuai, this question also surfaced again. In his more than 20 years of life, Xie Qingshuai experienced a lonely and helpless time, but slowly found that he was the son of a rich man who had been separated for many years. This made a major change in his understanding of life.
After recognizing his relatives, Father Xie frequently mentioned matters such as buying a house, buying a car and getting married on **, which seemed to be very generous. However, Xie Qingshuai rejected his father's offer to buy him a car, and decided to buy the first car in his life by his own efforts. Such a choice made his brother full of praise, and at the same time caused complaints and discussions among netizens. Some people believe that Xie Qingshuai has his current identity and attention, and even without the gift of his parents, he can still quickly realize his desire to buy a car. However, it has also been pointed out that the difference between "buying it yourself" and "giving it to your parents" is huge. Xie Qingshuai's family chose not to buy a car for him directly, which is their right and decision, but it is also one of the reasons for the controversy.
The reason why Xie Qingshuai's family insisted on buying his own car was because they believed that he still needed to achieve his dreams and goals through his own efforts. They believe that only through their own dedication and hard work can he truly appreciate the taste of success. Although the family provided housing and other vehicles for Xie Qingshuai's use, they hoped that he would be able to achieve his goal of buying a car through his own ability. This idea has also led to thinking about the way education is done and the concept of family.
Xie Qingshuai's decision has caused heated discussions on the Internet, and some people support his choice, believing that it is a kind of sensible and self-reliance from the heart. But there are also those who criticize his family, arguing that they should buy him a car directly to make up for the years he lost. In any case, these controversies highlight society's differing perceptions of wealth and family. There is often a prejudice against the children of wealthy families, believing that they enjoy the wealth of their parents and do not have their own efforts. And Xie Qingshuai's decision has changed this view to a certain extent.
Looking back at my own real life experiences, I have a similar experience. Growing up, my family never spoiled me too much or provided too much material possessions. They always insisted that I achieve my dreams and goals through my own efforts. Although this has allowed me to go through a lot of setbacks and difficulties, it has also made me more independent and strong. In my opinion, the purpose of family education is not only to provide material comfort, but more importantly, to cultivate children's ability to think independently and grow themselves.
Through the story of Xie Qingshuai, we can not only see the role of hard work and luck in life, but also reflect on the importance of family education and life concepts. The support and guidance of family members is an important part of children's growth, but family education also needs to be just right, and cannot be overly dependent and spoiled. Hard work and self-improvement are the key to everyone's success, and only through our own efforts can we truly realize our values and dreams.
Xie Qingshuai's life story may be just the tip of the iceberg, but it provides us with an opportunity to reflect and think. Both hard work and luck are an integral part of our journey in life. While working hard, we also need to learn to accept the baptism of luck and opportunities, and face the challenges and opportunities of life with a more positive attitude. The combination of hard work and luck can make our lives more fulfilling and rich. In the days ahead, let's keep in mind the importance of hard work and family and continue to struggle and pursue our dreams.