Fuguizu's family had a lot of property, but by his father's generation, half of it had been defeated. The two pillars of the family are accustomed to the life of the young master, and listening to the sound of copper coins colliding in their pockets, they feel happy.
Water without a source that dries up faster.
Fugui's father has no way to teach his son, and he can't run a family. Seeing that the inheritance of the ancestors is decreasing day by day, the old people are anxious, and the education of Fugui cannot glorify the ancestors. He was far-sighted, but when Fugui was young, as a father, he did not do well. Such a vision is also a little late.
The father's indulgence and the mother's doting made this man who already had a family still as careless as a child. Jiazhen has devoted her life to Fugui, living hard, but also happy, what enlightenment does it give us in the relationship between the sexes?
Fugui is familiar with the arrogant and lascivious young master's life, even if he is married and has children, he has no concept of family. The flowery wife is at home, and she can't control her feet.
Jiazhen had resentment in her heart, but she didn't say anything on the surface. Only silently made the dishes implying that Fugui is the same, women are all the same, and brothels are not a good place. When his elderly father saw his former self, he was angry and hit him with slippers.
His father's slippers and Jia Zhen's dishes couldn't control him. After Fugui lost all his family property, his father died of anger. Jia Zhen was pregnant with her second son and was about to give birth, and was taken home by her father-in-law.
According to the old customs, the mother's family played gongs and drums to take the married daughter home, which was to withdraw from the marriage. The child was born, the same as Fugui, surnamed Xu.
Jiazhen loves Fugui to the bone. In the middle of the family, she didn't complain, but gave Fugui a boost with her practical actions: as long as our family is together, no matter how hard the days are, we are not afraid.
Fugui was arrested and worked as a strong man for two years. It is precisely because of his longing for home and his longing for his family that he returned to his hometown from the pile of dead people with great hardship.
As long as there is hope in the heart, no matter how difficult life is, there is also light that illuminates the way forward. Jiazhen is the light that has been shining in Fugui's dark life.
02 Love is the all-out effort to break the kettle
Fugui went to the city to find a doctor for his mother, but was arrested by the Kuomintang and sent to serve as a soldier. made the already crumbling Xu family even worse.
Fugui is gone, and there is no news. Did you go gambling?Or went to a brothel?Or is it dead?Either way, it's cruel to Jiazhen.
Perhaps out of her mother's intuition, the old lady said to Jiazhen over and over again: Fugui will not gamble. Soon the old lady died. Jiazhen and her two children barely make ends meet.
Jiazhen, who was born in a rich lady, did rough work, and she no longer had the shy appearance she used to have.
After Fugui returned home from the battlefield, the family of four was finally reunited. The good days didn't last long, and the Great Leap Forward began. Due to years of fatigue, Jiazhen suffered from hypochondriasis.
Knowing that she had an incurable disease, Jiazhen was happy, so that she didn't have to waste money to treat the disease, which would not be cured anyway. Jiazhen, who was lying on the bed, even dismantled her clothes and used this fabric to make a dress for Feng Xia and Youqing.
Whether it is when you are rich or down, Jiazhen is always the same to Fugui. Caring for him and warming him. From the day she married into the Xu family, Fugui was all she had.
Jiazhen's persistence saw through all and saved Fugui's heart. Fugui began to feel sorry for Jiazhen, and when she was working, she always cared about whether she would be tired.
The prodigal son turned back, but the Yiren were still there.
If Jiazhen returns to her parents' house to celebrate her birthday and breaks off with the Xu family, maybe she will have another marriage and start a new life. It will not be incurable because of overwork.
If you insist on giving Fengxia to someone else's family to raise, the pressure on Jiazhen and Fugui will be much less, and Youqing's body will not be so thin. There will be no accidents later.
Looking further, if the Xu family went to say goodbye, Jiazhen's father could take a good look at Fugui's family background, he would not marry his daughter into the Xu family and bury his daughter's beautiful life.
There are many regrets in life that we can't turn back to. However, once we have made a choice, we have to grit our teeth and persevere, because we still have our families behind us.
In the face of adversity, courage and determination to break the kettle is the motivation to live, as long as you don't give up, life will not treat you badly. Fugui is unlucky, from the young master to almost reduced to a beggar, how lucky he is, his wife and children are always waiting for his return.
With the company of family, no matter how hard life is, it can blossom.
Yu Hua's "Alive" is a classic that must be read in lifeIt tells you that man lives for the sake of being alive, not for anything other than being alive.
At each stage, the goal and direction of life are different, so the blessing of old age is in silence and lonelinessBe in the company of old cows.
A person of this age lives for the sake of living, he does not have to live for himself, nor does he have to live for his family, but for the sake of living.
Even after going through life and death, and encountering many unimaginable hardships for ordinary people, Fugui never gave up his life. Instead, I chose to live well, with a calm attitude, and live every day of my life in a down-to-earth manner.
It turns out that "Alive" is the best luck and the greatest courage.
Life should not stop pursuing a challenge, life is difficult, Fugui is a portrayal of ordinary life, every blow, he has survived strongly, when hovering on the edge of pain, it is better to hold on, he has been happy, has been happy, enough.
I have read the book "Alive" many times, and every time I have a deep understanding and am deeply touched.
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