Hello everyone, I am Xiaoxiajie, I love to sing, and today I will share the following article with you.
The phenomenon of returning to the countryside at the end of the year reminds people of a common saying-"Going home is the New Year"。At the end of each year, those fellow villagers who work outside the country, regardless of their economic situation, will always give themselves an image of returning home. They will groom themselves well and even spend money on a used car to drive home. What's even more ridiculous is that in order to satisfy their vanity, some people even rent a good car for a year to go home to show their face to the villagers. This phenomenon is really puzzling. For example, my cousin, every year when he came back from working in Beijing, he would put a BMW car in front of his house. In the past, we all thought that he had developed his business in Beijing and bought such a good car. Looking at his famous brand, the cigarettes he distributes to his neighbors in the countryside are also high-quality, and a pack is worth more than 100 yuan in Great China. Many villagers were envious of him, and some even wanted to learn from him, curiously asking him what big business he was doing in Beijing.
The cousin replied proudly that he was in the fur business in Beijing, selling mink coats from high-end luxury brands. He said he had several branches in Beijing and had bought a house in Beijing. The villagers didn't know much about the fur business, but when they heard that he had bought a house in Beijing, they thought he was making a lot of money. Everyone was envious, jealous and hated him. However, when the cousin returned to Beijing, everyone went to visit his parents to find out what he did and how he made so much money to come back. People want to know the secret of his success. This strange phenomenon made me think deeply. Why do those villagers who work outside always have to slap their swollen faces and become fat when they return to their hometowns?Is it because they lack a sense of pride and belonging?They may suffer from various difficulties and pressures while working abroad, and when they return home, they hope to be able to make a good impression of themselves and the people in their hometown, and show their efforts and achievements.
Although this approach may seem ridiculous, we cannot completely deny their efforts and struggles. Everyone has the right to pursue self-esteem and respect, and everyone has the desire to show themselves. Maybe this way of returning home is not the best, but it reflects their love for their hometown and their sense of responsibility to their families. In my opinion, what matters is not whether they are actually rich or not, but that they are trying their best to achieve their dreams. We should respect everyone's choices, but also understand the hard work and dedication behind them. Perhaps, we should encourage them to pursue a more meaningful way of life, rather than just chasing material wealth. In short, the phenomenon of returning to the countryside at the end of the year may seem absurd, but we cannot judge a person's value only on the surface of the phenomenon. What matters is that they strive to pursue their dreams and happiness, which is what deserves our attention and encouragement the most.
In his hometown, there is a young man who goes home every year and drives a luxury car and wears a name brand, which surprises everyone. However, his uncle and aunt reveal his true situation. It turned out that he was just an ordinary worker in Beijing, and his monthly income was not high, and sometimes he couldn't even pay the rent, and he could only eat fast food every day. In this regard, the uncle and aunt were very dissatisfied, thinking that he was charging a lot of money outside, but in fact, he was relying on renting cars and renting clothes to save face, which cost a lot of money. They all thought it was ridiculous and didn't think there was any need to pretend to be rich. The uncle was even more angry that this kind of vanity would only make people see jokes and was meaningless. They have even been reproached by them, accused of not understanding the times, not understanding that the current society needs to have money in order to be respected. However, they find it ridiculous because this is not really rich and respectable, it only makes people feel ridiculous. Seeing this, I also want to ask if there are similar people in your hometown?
In recent years, many people who work outside the hometown have also driven home in luxury cars every year, parking the streets. In our village, there are some people who always like to show off their material possessions for fun. Whether they go to the entrance of the village or to the town, they have to drive luxury cars and show off their strength. They feel that this is impressive and makes them feel more imposing. The more they are complimented, the more self-absorbed they become, as if they become incomparably awesome. In our village, some people have built high-rise buildings in their hometowns by borrowing money or borrowing money from relatives and friends to show their wealth. The ornate villa is decorated with gold, but the interior is only whitewashed on the first floor, and the rest of the floors are rough walls. They just spent some money to make the first floor habitable and then started showing off their luxury villas. In their eyes, this can make them stand out from the crowd and win face.
There are also some people, even if their families are not wealthy, they will dress themselves up when they come home every year for the Spring Festival. They don't want to lose face, and even if they don't make a lot of money, they will scrape together to make themselves look like a big buck. However, once the villagers learn the truth, they are laughed at. The motives of these people are really incomprehensible, and their thinking seems childish and immature. I don't think this kind of vanity mentality is advisable. While having material wealth can bring temporary face, this false face does not give us real satisfaction. Instead, true value should come from inner growth and care for others. A person's qualities and character are the key to truly winning the respect of others. In my opinion, the people in our village should pay more attention to the actual quality of life, rather than blindly pursuing external vanity.
Only by really working hard and improving one's quality and ability can one achieve a true sense of achievement and happiness. After all, vanity is only a flash in the pan, but inner strength and character can stay with us throughout our lives, giving us real satisfaction and self-confidence. Therefore, I hope that the people in our village can change their way of thinking, get rid of the excessive pursuit of material things, and pay attention to inner cultivation and the establishment of interpersonal relationships. Only in this way can we truly embark on a happy and meaningful path to life. Let's grow together and pursue true happiness and success together!
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