2024 I would like to say that human cognition is always extremely limited, 360 lines, each line has details and insiders that are not known to outsiders, or hardships and bitterness that cannot be experienced by the outside world.
If a person is confined to a certain role or a certain industry or position for a long time, he will naturally form a kind of inertial thinking, resulting in great limitations in thinking, and his vision cannot be expanded.
Most people always subconsciously choose their comfortable environment, unwilling to deal with new challenges and possible hardships, always subconsciously escape from pain, and stay in the superficial sensory stimulation, such as mobile phones, knowing that swiping mobile phones will only cause boredom. Emptiness and impetuousness, but there are still too many people addicted to it, a brush is for several hours, often regret it afterwards, but regret is regret, most of them still can't restrain themselves, still the same, forming a vicious circle, day after day, time is so silent and passing, as a result of a year or even three years later, you are still the original superficial and impetuous you, only the increase in age and the aging of the years, nothing is gained, in vain lamentation.
Therefore, if people want to continue to grow, they must constantly force themselves to challenge the unknown, to adapt to the new environment, to deal with new affairs, or to face new people, and constantly meet the challenges of the unknown field. It is possible to have a qualitative leap after hitting a wall or even failing, and the calm and steady temperament and strong aura are always formed after experiencing many difficult temperings.
In this regard, first of all, we must have a full ideological preparation, we must clearly understand that the road ahead is full of thorns, dangers, we will encounter many difficulties, there will be difficulties that cannot be persevered, and we should fully consider the difficulties, and only after the difficulties come, will we calmly accept and alleviate the degree of suffering.
Secondly, we have to constantly force ourselves, jump out of the comfort zone, decisively put down the mobile phone, either force ourselves to go out to exercise, or force ourselves to pick up books, and resolutely force ourselves to jump away from the environment that we feel accustomed to and comfortable, such as always brushing the mobile phone for a while before going to bed, and then brushing the mobile phone for a while after getting up, and then brushing the mobile phone for a while, and then brushing it for another hour, which is actually not able to jump out of the comfort zone, and in the long run, it will only make yourself more decadent and impetuous.
Again, people's self-control and willpower are always limited, sometimes it is difficult to force yourself when you are alone, many times we need external stimulation and incentives, such as the participation of outsiders, supervision or encouragement, but also including the formulation of their own goals, goals can give you the motivation to move forward, and constantly drive you to overcome difficulties and complete tasks.
This is a difficult and long process, but if you don't force yourself to go through this process, you will always be in the impetuous emptiness and superficial level of wandering, never get to improve and improve, in this state, when you encounter things you will be at a loss or even painful and helpless, some just complain and lament, some are just pain and escape, therefore, the growth of people always have to pay a price, pay time and energy, pay face and dignity, and when you pay a lot, after a lot, you will usher in a new realm and mentality that makes you confident and calm。