Not long ago, I saw a piece of news, and I was creepy!
Xiao Dan, a girl in Shandong, was given away by her biological parents at birth.
At the age of 16 this year, she jumped off the building and died, but her adoptive parents actually matched her with a yin marriage, with a price of 180,000 yuan, a discount of 660 thousand.
The incident was poked out because his biological father called the police.
He felt that the adoptive parents had insulted their daughter's body"We can't stand this anger".
However, netizens did not give him much sympathy:
Why did you go when the child was alive?”
It's unfortunate that the child met you!”
What qualifications do you have to come out and speak?”
Looking closely, the whole incident is only described in two words-Disgusting.
Born but not raised, raised but not taught
The tragedy of the girl was doomed from birth.
Xiao Dan came to this world because his biological parents were unexpectedly pregnant, however, due to family difficulties, they decided to give their daughter up for adoption:
In 2005, I was working in the county seat, the unit was not very good, I couldn't afford to pay my salary, my family didn't have a job, and I had twin children.
I didn't want the baby at the time, but I got pregnant unexpectedly at the timeMy family said to give her a life, and she said that there were a lot of children around her. ”
At that time when the ** small advertisements were flying all over the sky, they chose to give birth to the unexpectedly pregnant child and then give it to adoption.
Whether it was because of the feelings of "great compassion" or other considerations, we do not know.
But this decision planted the seeds of tragedy for Xiao Dan's life.
The adoptive parents who adopted Xiao Dan had a good family, and they only had one son after marriage, and they always wanted a girl at that time.
I thought that a happy life would begin, but I didn't expect that Xiao Dan would not have a good life in this family.
In the notes left by Dan, she wrote:
I don't even know how old I am."
Alas, you can't do anything."
Washing clothes is not good, work is not clean, chopsticks are not clean, pay attention in the future, alas".
In a chat with a friend, she mentioned itThe adoptive mother's words were "vicious and hurtful", and she was often abused, and even committed suicide.
Even when they told "Dad" and "Brother", they felt that it was Xiao Dan's fault.
For this reason, she also suspected that she was not biological.
Xiao Dan's biological father had visited her as a relative, but only to visit.
According to him, Xiao Dan was abused by his adoptive parents for a long time before his death, and he believed that this was the reason for his daughter's suicide.
However, the adoptive parents said that they had always treated Xiao Dan as a daughterThe fall was due to adolescent rebellion, and he accidentally fell when he was distracted.
So, what is the reason for a young girl in the flower season to write in a notebook"Forget it when you're dead",And there is a "strong resistance" to the discipline of the adoptive mother, and finally embarked on the road of ending his own life?
On December 5, 2022, 16-year-old Xiao Dan jumped from the floor of a building under construction and died instantly.
But she didn't expect that she would be able to look at her after death.
Corpse bones with yin marriage
After Dan fell to his death, his adoptive parents refused an autopsy on the grounds that they wanted to keep a whole body.
Xiao Dan's biological father said that he had been trying to accept the fact of Xiao Dan's death.
Until it was discovered that Xiao Dan was adoptive by his parents' family to 660,000 ** with a yin marriage.
What is a marriage with a yin?
The so-called yin marriage, also known as ghost marriage, was a bad habit that became popular in the pre-Qin period.
According to folk sayings, if there is a lonely grave in the family grave, it may make the soul of the dead restless and endanger future generations.
Therefore, after a young unmarried man and woman die for some reason, they should find a person of the opposite sex to be buried together.
And the bride price for the yin marriage will also be very high, and it is common to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars when encountering young men and girls with good looks.
Xiao Dan's biological father said:
Now Xiao Dan and the deceased boy Zhang are buried in a grave, and the boy's relatives said that they received 60,006, not including the cost of the hospital's autopsy and body hidingAt the beginning, I asked for 180,000. ”
The buyer later denied the success of the match, and the father of the deceased boy said
At that time, the intermediary did not tell the girl that she fell to her death, but died after taking the wrong medicine, and proposed that 60,006 could be matched with a yin marriage, and the two parties gave up because they couldn't talk.
Dan and the deceased boy are buried in the same grave.
* After intervening in the investigation, it was found that the situation of marrying Xiao Dan with 60,006 was true.
However, in order to convict him, there is no conclusive evidence to determine that it is a case of humiliation.
Xiao Dan's biological father was unwilling to let his adoptive parents go, so he said that he would file a lawsuit to apply for invalid support for his adoptive parents.
A 16-year-old child, who was cared for by no one during his lifetime, committed suicide, and was married by 60,000 6 after his death, which is simply unsafe in life and death.
And the biological father, who disappeared for 16 years, showed surprising anger only after the death of the child and the paid marriage.
Who cares about her pain and grievances when she is alive?Knowing that she was not doing well, he didn't take her home, who was it?
No one has ever been annoyed or concerned about the death of the child, and some are just the cold money numbers after the death of the child.
As netizens said:
"The poor child was not blessed and was born, and was eaten and wiped clean even when he was gone. ”
The life of a woman who has been oppressed
Who would have thought that marriage with yin does not just exist in horror movies, but is a naked reality.
Do you remember Fang Yangyang in Shandong?
At the age of 22, she was abused by her mother-in-law, father-in-law, and husband because she couldn't give birth to childrenHungry, stick-beating, snow punishment.
One day, after being beaten with a stick by his father-in-law for an afternoon, Fang Yangyang died.
Before the bones were cold, the mother's family fell from the sky and sold Fang Yangyang's ashes to others for a marriage.
Because the family died of a boy, the burial of an unmarried boy is not good for the family feng shui, and we are a girl here, helpless, which is equivalent to marrying a yin relative. ”
From the daughter of the Fang family, she became the daughter-in-law of the Zhang family, and then became the "wife" of the underworld who she had never met.
Fang Yangyang has never been able to break free from the fate of being squeezed dry in his life.
Fang Yangyang in girlhood.
Even if it is named "marriage", but the marriage of yin is actually not a "forced buying and selling" of the living to the dead?
In 2021, it was also similar news, and the Internet celebrity "Luo Xiaomei Maozi" committed suicide by drinking pesticides in the live broadcast room.
After her death, her ashes were unexpectedly dropped by the funeral practitioners, trying to ** to match the yin marriage.
Fortunately, the act was exposed, and the perpetrator was quickly arrested and the ashes were returned to his family for burial.
But what is even more chilling is that after the matter was revealed, the mastermind's wife just snorted coldly and said:
(referring to stealing the girl's ashes and taking them to the yin marriage) is not a big deal. Rushing to the cusp of the storm is a success. ”
However, what she said is also an indisputable fact.
According to incomplete statistics, from 2013 to 2020, there were at least 210 cases related to "ghost marriages".
Even in some cases, when there are not enough dead people, it is necessary to use the living to make up the number.
And as long as there is such a "market", there will be a steady stream of "ghost brides".
This is the life of being a woman and being eaten and wiped clean.
In the final analysis, the bad habit of yin marriage is the "surface", and the girl's secret dilemma is the "inside".
There is still a long way to go to break the game.
Write at the end
With a dark marriage, it seems to be a story in the underworld, but in fact it is still dark in the world.
Lu Xun once used the mouth of a madman to express the harm of feudal dross to people in "Diary of a Madman":
I opened the history and checked, this history has no age, and the words "benevolence, righteousness and morality" are written on every crooked page.
I couldn't fall asleep, and I looked carefully for half the night before I could see the words in the cracks, and there were two words written all over the book that were 'cannibalism'!”
Now, decades later, although the man-eating beast has reined in, it is still "eating man."
What exactly is the value of a girl for some families?Even today, the answer to this question is unbearable.
It is hoped that superstition and ignorance will not continue to spread in modern society, and that every life, whether alive or dead, will be given the respect and tranquility it deserves.
What do you think about the marriage of the yin?What other horrible folklore have you heard?
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