Song Dandan is a very good actor, she has won very good results in dramas, sketches and actingShe even partnered with Zhao Benshan to push Chinese sketches to the top
It can be said that Song Dandan's life's career is prosperous and smooth sailing. It's a pity that when such an excellent old artist was young, his feelings were full of twists and turns, and he was very unhappy. Evenwas also intervened by his girlfriend during his marriage to his second husband, and his husband was not only shameless but beaten up.
In her own words, she describes her younger self as "".I don't want to get married again in my life!
Why did Song Dandan make such an exclamation?What exactly did her three marriages bring her?
Today, let's look back at the first half of Song Dandan's life.
Song Dandan was born in Beijing in 1960, although the conditions in everyone's family were not good not long after the reform and opening up, but Song Dandan's father was at that timeSecretary of the Beijing Federation of Literary and Art Circles, her mother is a middle school art teacher, and even Song Dandan's only brother became the only brother in the futureVice Governor of Shanxi Province, although these are all later words, according to the conditions of Song Dandan's parents, it can be regarded as a very wealthy family at that time.
Song Dandan has never bothered about money since she was a child, basically whatever she wants, the family will meet her, Song Dandan has not lived up to her parents' expectations, she has shown a very amazing talent in art since she was a child.
In 1981, I was admitted very smoothlyBeijing People's Art Theater performance training classIt was at this time that she met her first love.
Song Dandan fell in love with her first boyfriend Yuan Gang at first sight when she saw her first boyfriend Yuan Gang sweating on the basketball court, which was different from the reserved era at that timeAs soon as Song Dandan saw Yuan Gang, he pursued him fiercely
Song Dandan wrote him a lot of love letters in order to pursue Yuan Gang, in which he expressed his love for him. At that time, Song Dandan was also a standard beauty embryo, soYuan Gang quickly agreed to associate with Song Dandan
After that, Song Dandan invited Yuan Gang to the zoo for a dateBoth gave their "first kiss" in front of the zoo's fence, Song Dandan also won his male god as he wished.
At that time, Song Dandan was in love for the first time, so he attached great importance to Yuan Gang, even if the latter two were not admitted to the same school, butSong Dandan could not sleep for a few days and nights, just to run to Yuan Gang's school to meet him, even if he could only say a few words, Song Dandan was satisfied.
To describe Song Dandan at that time in our current popular vocabulary is".Love BrainIt's a pity that Song Dandan, who was carried away by love, didn't realize that when falling in love, you have to give the other party a little time to breathe freely.
Yuan Gang also ruthlessly left his girlfriend, who had been in love with him for many years, because Song Dandan was too clingy, and went abroad to study.
I don't know if it's because of my first love that Song Dandan was too hurt, and then I didSong Dandan soon got married to her first husband, no one knows what Song Dandan's first husband was called, but this short marriage ended after a year.
After the divorce, Song Dandan began to focus all her energy on her career, and it was at this time that she met her second husband who hurt her the mostIndah
In 1987, Song Dandan rehearsed in the theaterArsonistYingda is the director of this workBoth had gone through a failed marriage at the time, Such the same experience made the two people have a common topic, and the two quickly confirmed their relationship during the work period.
At that time, Yingda was like a handsome boy, so that Song Dandan once again tasted the feeling of love, under the attack of Yingda's sweet cannonballs, Song Dandan fell in love with this man completely, maybe Song Dandan would not have thought in his life that the man he loved with his heart and lungs would become the sinner who hurt him the most.
Yingda and Song Dandan also entered the palace of marriage very smoothly, and in the second year, the crystallization of love was born - Batu.
At this time, Song Dandan can be said to be a winner in lifeThe family is happy and the career is in full swing
It's a pity that this life didn't last long, and Yingda's heart gradually became distorted because Song Dandan's career was getting better and better.
When a psychologically distorted man sees that his wife's status surpasses him, he can only realize his value by suppressing his wife's heart.
Yingda is such a man, he hates his wife for showing up outside, but the family's money is earned by Song Dandan, so he doesn't dare to say anything on the surface, and can only express his dissatisfaction in behavior.
So at this time, Song Dandan not only had to be busy with his career, but also had to take care of his children, but even if he did this, Yingda was still not satisfied, and he didn't even want to look at his wife at home.
This marriage was like a thorn in Yingda's heart, and it was at this time that Yingda caught the "redemption" in her heart.
In 1994, Yingda directed his new work ".I love my homeIn this drama, Song Dandan starred as the heroine, but unfortunately the two couples did not reconcile because of this drama, but they werebecame the fuse of "divorce".
In the crew of "I Love My Home".Yingda met screenwriter Liang Huan, is different from Song Dandan's strong woman, Liang Huan admires Yingda's talent very muchEvery time, I look at Yingda with a "little fan girl" look
Even if Liang Huan is not as good-looking as Song Dandan, he is machismoIndah seems to have fallen in love with the feeling of being looked up to
He also revealed in a later interview that he liked Liang Huan because of her good personality.
In this way, Yingda and Liang Huan began to flirt when they were in the crew, and they didn't take Song Dandan, the original wife, in their eyes at all.
Song Dandan was also completely disappointed in Yingda when he watched this scene, he had paid so much for his familyIn exchange, it was her husband's blatant "cheating".
But even if Yingda cheated, he didn't want to take the initiative to file for divorce and sit on himself."Scumbag". Song Dandan really didn't want to swallow her anger in this marriage, so she held a press conference in 1997, directlyaccused Yingda of what he did to this marriage, and also confessed that he also cheated on Yingda in order to get revenge
Song Dandan then divorced Yingda very smoothly, and Song Dandan did not have a good time after the divorce, her ex-husbandYingda not only carried out "personal attacks" on her and wantonly smeared herself, but also turned around and married Liang Huan.
During this time, Song Dandan was very depressed, but fortunately, she had her best friend Ni Ping to comfort her, otherwise she wouldn't know how to spend this period at all.
After Yingda and Song Dandan divorced, the whole person began to let himself goHe soon got a certificate with Liang Huan, gave birth to a son, and settled in the United States, ignored Song Dandan's mother and son, and even took back Batu's surname.
Yingda was like a baby to the child born to Liang Huan, and he was afraid of melting in the palm of his hand, so he named the childBrilliant as dysprosium, which means that only this child is born, and it seems that it is not at allIt is not admitted that he also has a son named Batu
In order to train his youngest son, Yingda did not hesitate to spend a lot of moneyWhen my son was 3 years old, he searched all over Beijing to find the best piano teacher for his son, and directly bought hundreds of thousands of pianos with a big wave.
Later, when his son grew up and was very interested in ice hockey, Yingda also supported his son's choice 100%.directly spent 5 million to send Ying Rudi to the United States to study ice hockey professionally, andAt home abroad, a hockey rink was built specifically for his son
In order to train his son, Yingda is not like the lazy uncle before, but now he takes the initiative to do the housework at home, and works hard to go out to make money in order to realize his son's dream of being an ice hockey player.
Although his son's dream is realized, Yingda is because of ".Owed money is not repaid"It's become an old man, but this amount must be a drop in the bucket for Yingda.
For Yingrudi, Yingda can be said to be a super good father in chargeIt's a pity that Batu has never enjoyed his father's love in his life.
When he was a child, Batu wanted to go out with his father, but Yingda ignored him, and even when Batu wanted a *** from his father, Yingda was very disgusted.
Even when Batu learned that his grandfather had passed away and wanted to go to worship, he was directly rejected by Yingda.
And also bluntly said".If you're divorced, don't have any relationship!
Even on a certain showYingda directly and publicly stated that he did not recognize Batu's surnameThe surname Ying is doubtful first.
Song Dandan was also angry when she heard this, and directly posted a Weibo complaining about what Yingda had done to her son in recent years, which was outrageous.
Batu also became one because of this growing environmentIntroverted, sensitive, shyHe has always felt that his mother is very strict with him and does not approve of him.
However, Song Dandan's request for Batu is also for his good, after all, without his father's education, Batu also wants to become a man who stands up to the sky.
Fortunately, after growing up, Batu did not live up to Song Dandan's expectations, although he did not make any name in the entertainment industry, but he also made a lot of money by selling goods through live broadcasts.
Batu also married a beautiful and virtuous wife in a very low-key manner, and the two gave birth to a lovely baby.
At this time, a very dramatic scene happened, and Yingda immediately became a "loving father" after learning that Batu had given birth to a childwants to find Batu to repair the father-son relationship, and offers to see his grandson
As soon as Yingda's words came out, Song Dandan scolded him."You don't even have a son, where did you get a grandson!
But I didn't expect Yingda to start a counterattack against Song Dandan's words when she participated in the show."I treat all children equally, and it was Song Dandan who stopped me from seeing Batu!”
It can only be said that the eyes of the masses are bright, and everyone has seen what Yingda has done for so many years, and it is impossible to wash it now.
Yingda and Song Dandan used to be an enviable couple, but unfortunately Yingda completely changed this marriage, and now it's all his ownBlame yourselfNo one's to blame.
Even if the feelings of adults are not good, they can't treat Batu like thisThe children are all innocent, Indah caused irreparable damage to Batu's childhood.
The absence of the role of a father for more than 20 years is not something that can be written off with an apology, and when Song Dandan and Batu don't want to agree with you, do you have to take a look at what you did back then.
Do you agree with Song Dandan and Batu's approach?