Maybe the world isn't complicated. There is only one reason for the friendship to be broken. That is, I sent WeChat, but you don't reply.
There seems to be no sign of a change in your relationships, but there are already signs of it, but you just don't notice it. When you find out, the relationship is over.
The changes in the high and low tides of the tide are like the impermanence of the world, the moment in front is vibrant, and the moment below is quiet.
In the process of getting along with others, there are default rules, although the other party does not say it clearly, but you can't pretend not to know, especially if you know what the other person means but pretend not to know, it will only make each other more embarrassed.
Not replying is rejection.
In the process of getting along with adults, there are very few people who talk to each other on a daily basis. Most people are limited to WeChat friendships.
Before that, there was a topic on the Internet. In WeChat chat, what kind of behavior of the other party will cause boredom and disgust?Among them get"Okay"The most is that the other party does not reply to WeChat.
In fact, in the relationship between adults, there is one"Don't reply to WeChat"This is the best answer. You continue to move forward, trying to take the initiative to catch up with the other party, but the other party never looks back, and there is only one subtext. "Do not disturb. ”
You don't need to be proactive all the time. Because not answering is the most cruel refusal.
If you don't answer, you don't mean you're important.
There are three types of contacts in the address book: one is that they can be shared and chat together often. One is to maintain a superficial relationship no matter whether it is far or near, and the last is dispensable, too unwilling to face it.
If the other person has you in mind, they will take all your messages seriously and will find time to reply no matter how busy they are. But if I don't have you in my heart, I often forget your messages automatically, or even set them not to read your messages.
Stressful work and busy life may be only part of the reason, and the root cause may be that you are not very important in his eyes. They are so busy that they even think they've replied to your messages, but they're not.
It turns out that they are not busy, they are just evaluating what information is useful and what information is worth answering. There is no information that cannot be received, only people who do not want to answer. The person who has your heart, no matter how busy, takes all the news seriously.
People who don't have you tend to automatically ignore your messages and never lift a finger. Silence or hiding, because you don't matter to him.
The most dignified goodbye between people is not to reply.
We will meet many people in this world, but some will travel with us, some will accompany us for a longer time, if you meet someone who does not reply to your messages, then don't be attached.
The other party obviously saw the message but did not reply to your message, which means that the relationship is gradually estranged. If you can't change your heart, there's no need to force it.
It would be rude to knock on a door that could not be opened. In this case, it is better to get together with Hemei, break up with Hemei, end the relationship, and never see each other again in this life, which can be said to be the best result.
The host Cai Kangying once said such a sentence: If he wants you, he will say: If he cares about you, he will reveal his true feelings, and ignoring it means that he doesn't need you.
Adults must learn to approach life independently and enrich their lives and inner world. Since there is no news from the other party, it is better for each other to be safe and not disturb each other.