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Recently, Fan Xiaohui, an Internet celebrity with more than 12 million fans on Douyin, took the baby alone after being cheated and divorced, and she posted a sassy ** walking on the street on her Douyin account. This ** sparked heated discussions among netizens, and one of the female fans' messages received nearly 40,000 likes. This fan left a message: "She has a son, and money, no husband, no mother-in-law, my God, what kind of fairy life is this!" ”
The popularity of this message reflects the yearning and pursuit of women in the current society for an independent, free, and financially free lifestyle. This phenomenon of pursuing independence and freedom and personal value consciousness is not only reflected in Internet celebrities like Fan Xiaohui, but also many women who are independent and successful and achieve financial freedom choose to "give birth without marriage", such as Ye Haiyang, the founder of a cosmeceutical company, who went abroad to select high-quality sperm for test tubes at the age of 29 and gave birth to two smart, beautiful and healthy girls.
This phenomenon is known as "fatherhood and childlessness", when women choose to have children and raise children on their own, no longer bound by the traditional family. This lifestyle is envied and sought after by many women. More and more women believe that if they are strong enough, they can get their ideal life without being dependent on anyone.
The emergence of this phenomenon made some men surprised and shocked. However, we need to recognize that this is the result of the rise of women's pursuit of independence and freedom and a sense of personal worth. In modern society, more and more women want to be able to take control of their own lives, no longer be bound by traditional families, and pursue their careers and lifestyles.
Of course, the emergence of this phenomenon has also sparked some controversy and discussion. Some people see it as a way for women to pursue freedom and independence, while others believe that it weakens the status and image of men in family life. But in any case, we need to acknowledge the existence of this phenomenon and its rationality.
So, why are more and more women choosing the way of "leaving the father and leaving the child"? On the one hand, it is the rise of women's own pursuit of independence and freedom and personal value, and on the other hand, it is also because society's perception and expectations of women's roles are also changing. In modern society, women are no longer seen as appendages to men, but as independent individuals with their own rights and choices.
Of course, we also need to recognize that the "Father and Child" approach is not a one-size-fits-all option. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and the choice of which way to live needs to be decided according to their own situation and needs.
In short, this phenomenon reflects the yearning and pursuit of women's lifestyle of independence, freedom and financial freedom in the current society. This is a manifestation of the rise of women's pursuit of personal value, and it is also the result of the change in society's perception and expectation of women's roles. We should respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, while also recognizing that each lifestyle has its pros and cons and its applicability.