Recently, I often see people leaving messages in the background asking that babies who are less than one year old at home will fake crying! I didn't understand anything at a young age, but I have developed into a drama master? Why is that?
According to the latest research results, babies begin to "deceive" as early as 4 months old, and fake crying is one of the earliest behaviors of babies. Babies always want to get more attention and care from their parents, so they will take some "measures", and "fake crying" is the easiest to succeed, so it naturally becomes their victory. What is the baby's fake cry expressing? What should parents do in the face of fake crying of babies? Let's take a look!
What is the baby's fake cry expressing?
Baby's fake crying is basically self-taught - no one needs to teach it. Therefore, a baby who can fake crying is also a "genius" performance!
There are also many kinds of crying, and the real crying may be physiological, hungry, sleepy, knocked, and touched. It's a physical discomfort, and fake crying is different. Fake crying is a kind of social crying, which is not caused by physical discomfort, and is mostly the baby's behavior in order to achieve his own goals. Fake crying babies have better expression skillsExperts say that the baby's "fake crying" can promote the improvement of the baby's expressionIt will help them develop emotionally, not only bring the mother and child closer together, but also help them communicate better with others in their future studies and Xi work. In addition, fake crying can also make babies and children with siblings grow up faster and know how to communicate and communicate with others. Fake crying makes your baby more communicativeParenting experts point out that babies who like to "fake cry" are more communicative. When the baby is crying, parents will get a sense of satisfaction as long as they coax a little, and sometimes parents deliberately let the baby demonstrate fake crying in front of relatives and friends, and the baby will be very cooperative. This is because babies know that parents will be happy to do this, so it is natural for them to use this skill often to attract attention and make the family happy.
What should parents do in the face of fake crying of babies?
"Fake crying" helps the baby's emotional development, the expression ability will be improved, and at the same time, it can bring the parent-child relationship closer, help the baby develop social skills, and strengthen the social and emotional ability, helping them to better communicate with others in their future Xi and work. Therefore, don't feel bored with the fake crying of children in front of parents, and understand their actions rationallyBe reasonable1. Unreasonable requirements should be ignoredSome parents will be very conflicted when faced with the situation of fake crying of their baby, especially when the baby has unreasonable requirements. When it is found that the baby is crying in order to get something, the vexatious behavior at this time needs to be ignored by parents in time, and nothing happens when anything happens. When babies find that their "fake crying" is not working, they will slowly abandon this method. 2. Give your baby more careA baby's fake cry is a manifestation of parental dependence. Parents give the baby more care, let the baby know that the parents still love and care about him, and educate the baby not to use "fake crying" to achieve the goal. If parents do spend less time with their babies, they should meet their normal emotional needs and spend as much time as possible with their childrenIn the parent-child time with the child, let them feel loved and cared for, and over time, the baby will naturally not win attention by fake crying.
The baby's fake crying looks like a "battle of wits and courage" with his parents, but in fact it is an external manifestation of his emotional needs. In the process of accompanying the baby to grow up, we must accept their "vexatiousness", and try to give more care and companionship, otherwise the baby's original "fake crying" is likely to become "real crying"!