Solitude Quiet solitude with no one to disturb you

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-28

Reeves, a famous man, is famous all over the world with "The Matrix", and he is a big name, but his life couldn't be simpler and more enjoyable. When he's not filming, what he likes to do is take a walk to eat a sandwich on a park bench, be in a daze, listen to the birdsong, and the yellow leaves in autumn fall to the ground, and a few hours will passRead the newspaper on a slow train that goes somewhere, and say nothing;He also likes to go to a café alone on his birthday, order a cake for himself, think about something to worry about, and spend a while alone for ......It was very comfortable to be alone. The contrast is so big, I didn't expect it, but I take it for granted, because in this way, he will have a different temperament.

I have always had a good impression of Huang Qiusheng, although he started from farce, but once I watched a famous host in the mainland interview him, I saw that he was different, and a few words made the sensational host speechless. Later, I learned that although he didn't go to school, he read a lot of books. He said that it is enough to know what is good and what is not good after reading. One has to be realised. After he became famous, he didn't like any nightclubs, he said I like to drink red wine at home, why go out?People with abundant hearts will not be so irritable and so noisy. They have the ability to have fun on their own.

This year, Liu Huan and his wife held a silver wedding anniversary in Greece. With such a night breeze and the sea, their expressions are really tranquil, and they are full of joy in life, which makes the onlookers moved. He is also a person with the ability to enjoy alone, in the entertainment industry, but he is completely unaffected and has never left the podium. He said that what he likes most is a person staying at home in the instrument room, composing music and listening to **, sinking quietly in the ** classical world, and a person must have the ability to fight thousands of troops. Such a scene is imaginable, a square inch music room, a person, surging in all directions, no one disturbs, quiet inspiration gushing out, really good. So, he's the one who is going up the stairs, and every appearance is different. For so three years, he chose to accompany his daughter to study in the United States, away from the hustle and bustle, he enjoyed it as much, after sending his daughter to school, he went to the gym to work out, went home to read and listen, lost a lot of weight, and the whole person became refreshing and quiet, and his experience of "accompanying the study" was really wonderful. He said that when he returned to Beijing, he couldn't get used to the noise of the airport, and he Xi used to being quiet. This solo person has never had a scandal, from the beginning to the end, his feelings are single-minded, like his classical **, permeated in silence. A bright moon.

Also, Chen Daoming, a scholarly family, he also reads a lot of books, he is not afraid of being forgotten, he is tired and tired, and he is not in a good state, and he is not in a hurry, as soon as the door is closed, he will go to study!Simplicity, he said, is advanced. If a person wants to experience everything and participate in everything, it is too tired, too manic, too complicated, and he chooses to see the world with a third eye. He achieved the word high. One look is in place.

Not only in the entertainment industry, but even ordinary people are jumping up and down, getting together to have fun, staying alone, being alone is no fun or boring. They are too noisy on the road to seek happiness, and in the end the song is scattered, endless emptiness, and can only be more unhappy, passing by happiness and inner peace.

I've seen such a drama filmed by the BBC, a scene in which a middle-aged man, every year on his birthday, will choose a hotel he likes, find a location near the window, order a cup of fragrant coffee and desserts, open the "catch 22" (a favorite book of his) that he carries with him, sit quietly, melt the loss, surprise, and emotion into the book one by one, this is a luxurious scene of solitude, nothing to do with money, like a gorgeous stage in the heart, Ambilight, it's really good. He's just an ordinary person. But he understands the luxury of solitary pleasure.

And the most recent solo experience I experienced was on a summer morning, waking up early in the morning. Driving to East Lake, in the early morning, the road is empty, and the old song "It's Cool and Good Autumn" is coming out of the radio ......At that time, the sun was rising on the horizontal plane of East Lake, and on the opposite side was Moshan Mountain, which was sparkling on the water surface and swaying green trees, which was very beautiful. At that time, it was a high temperature of 39 days in Wuhan, and in such an early morning, because of solitude, the air was filled with the smell of happiness.

A friend of mine is more advanced, and occasionally wants to change his mood, he will find a hotel with a good environment near his home to stay for a day, one person, a bottle of wine, two side dishes, close the door, no one disturbs, sit cross-legged on the carpet of the hotel, and look out the window at the city night through the floor-to-ceiling glass windows of the hotel. She's alone, happy, undisturbed, and really nice. So, I rarely hear her complain about any ......

Related Pages