As the saying goes: "Mutual love is born from the heart, and words are expressed as you like." "A person's inner thoughts are often written on his face.
The so-called "physiognomy" includes not only the inner character, temperament and conversation, but also the external appearance and posture. The inner appearance is often more important than the external appearance, because excellent character and elegant temperament cannot be overshadowed by your radiance.
In society, pay special attention to those who are vitriolic and mean, and getting along with them may make you uncomfortable or even hurt. We must be good at observing each other's inner world in order to better understand each other.
Vitriolic and difficult. There are the following types of people, none of which are suitable for intercourse.
1. People who care about everything are not easy to get along with.
Bitter and mean people are often narrow-minded and calculating small things, which makes it difficult for people to get along with.
If they are friends, we can choose to cut back on each other;But if it is a loved one, family life will become difficult for the sake of trivial matters.
Especially in the family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also prone to deteriorate. It is very difficult for us to make people restrain because they go their own way, and it is difficult for them to recognize their own shortcomings. Therefore, if your loved ones have been scheming about you, the best option is to separate, and you should try to stay away from it so as not to set yourself on fire.
2. People who pick on everything and nothing are not easy to get along with.
Bitter and mean people, "nitpicking", always picking bones in eggs. You didn't offend them, they target you, and no matter how hard you try, they will always find a reason to criticize.
In the workplace, you work hard, but your boss picks you every way. They accuse you of your inadequacies in public, making you feel confused and aggrieved and shameless.
You may wonder why he treats me like this when I didn't offend himActually, you don't need a reason to hate someone.
Someone may target you because your looks don't match their aesthetics. Someone may find ways to blame you for not being in tune with your magnetic field.
All eggs are picky, both for good reason and for gratuitous prejudice. Getting along with such people can affect your quality of life.
3. Ruthless people are not suitable for communication.
Mean people are often ruthless, they don't care about the feelings of others, and only focus on their own interests. As Sima Zhen said, mean people are good at using torture, but there is no benevolence or righteousness at all.
In marriage, you give your whole heart to the family, whether it is money or energy, but your partner is cold and ruthless to you, and will even hurt you with some yin and yang weird words.
You may wonder why you give so much and don't get your partner's understanding and loveAt this time, you need to think about whether your partner is a mean personThey will only make demands on you, but they will not be considerate of your feelings.
For example, they will ask you to earn money but will not care if you are tired;They will demand perfection from you, but they won't love you for a single thing. This act of coldness and meanness is ingrained and will never change.
When choosing a partner or making friends, be sure to avoid associating with mean people. Your sincerity and warmth will not move them, but will hurt yourself more.
4. Selfish and demanding people are not suitable for communication.
Mean people are often selfish. They often ask others to do things they can't do, and they have to take over tasks that they can't accomplish.
In a team, you work on a project with the group leader, but the team leader only points fingers at you and does not give any constructive advice, which makes you feel miserable.
After the project was completed, when it was time to share the credit, the team leader took all the credit, turned a blind eye to your efforts, and did not even say a word of "hard work" condolences. Your hard work is only rewarded for his selfishness.
Working with such people will only end you up with a "thankless" end. The more you give, the more others are likely to receive, and at the same time they will only blame you.
The ancestors once said: "Mean people don't work together." When you work with such people, your efforts are only taken for granted in the eyes of others.
In the days ahead, we need to surround ourselves with people who know how to share and be grateful. For those who are selfish and demanding of others, it is better for us to choose to say goodbye.