In love variety shows, I am always deeply attracted by the emotional lines that attack straight balls, the two are happy, and the triangular relationship is intertwined, as if young people's love should be so passionate. However, in the latest broadcast of "Spring Delayed Departure", there is a bizarre picture: divorced men and women are afraid to move, dare not confess, and dare not enter the next intimate relationship. This made me think, can people who have been hurt by marriage really lose the courage to love again?
A new journey: "Spring is delayed".
"Spring Delay and Departure Again" is a new love variety show produced by the production team that created "Goodbye Lover" last year. The show focuses on the re-departure of divorcees, and seven single men and women who have not yet recovered from the pain caused by their previous failed marriages have joined hands to start a "limited trip" for four consecutive weekends.
Unusual Conversations: The Story Behind the Scars.
Compared with ordinary dating shows, the guests did not shy away from talking about their marriage experiences when they met for the first time, from the reasons for divorce to the painful experiences at a glance. The three female guests even shared the scumbag ex-husbands they encountered in their marriage, which was embarrassing.
Liu Liqi, a university teacher with a doctorate degree, discovered her ex-husband's cheating behavior in her marriage, and her tolerance and concession eventually led her ex-husband to become even worse. Lu Ying, a ballet teacher, was divorced by her husband during surgery. Mo Fei, an investment bank HR, found out that his ex-husband was infected with gambling Xi after marriage, and finally chose to leave. These experiences are embarrassing, and divorce may be a relief for them, but the damage they suffer in their intimate relationships makes them suffer.
The harsh reality of marriage: it is even more devastating to die without a problem.
Unlike their parents, modern men and women have higher expectations for marriage, and the pursuit is more about the fit of spirit and values. However, the problems in marriage are often not only principled domestic violence, cheating, and gambling, but also may be intensified due to vague reasons such as "gathering less and leaving more", "different personalities", and "differences in concepts".
In "Spring is Late", the reason why Wu Yating and Wang Lixin divorced was because "little things are accumulated, and all the happiness is not worth the unhappiness". The disagreement between stand-up comedian Rock and his ex-wife stemmed from personality differences, and the conflict between the two eventually prompted the decision to divorce. These "peaceful divorces", although they may seem decent, also cause profound harm to the parties.
Disaster reconstruction: The journey still takes time.
After a divorce, the harsh realities of marriage can have a profound impact on individuals, making them wary of new relationships. Wu Yating's life after the divorce was full of pain and tears, and she was immersed in grief every day, until the appearance of the child cheered her up. When Rock described the feeling of saying goodbye to his six-year marriage, he described it as standing in the ruins and experiencing a re-baptism of emotional outlook.
However, "Late Spring" has opened a ** journey of "post-disaster reconstruction" for this group of people in pain. Through mechanisms such as heartbeat lights and guardian stars, the guests gradually built trust and understanding with each other's support. Wrapped in love, they revisit their past marriages and feel tenderness, contentment, and courage for the future.
Conclusion: The courage to move forward.
This group of men and women who have experienced marital setbacks are now sitting together and sharing each other's joys and sorrows. They guarded each other with their hearts, warmed each other, and were no longer in a hurry to start a new relationship, but found themselves again in the process of "post-disaster reconstruction".
The right to define life is firmly in their hands, and they are no longer urged by the social clock. They have learned not to rush to get married, not to have children, but to focus on remaining independent, kind, and courageous.