Tell me how many good friends you have, and your first reaction is to break your fingers to count how many classmates you haveAnd then sift through that, who's my best friend?
In the journey of life, we will meet too many people, whether it is classmates, or many people who meet by chance, some of them pass by briefly in our lives, and some warm our lives.
Life in the world, family, friendship, love build our life, can be with family and love, this one is born to us, the other is we want to spend a lifetime together in a parallel position, enough to show the importance of friendship.
But isn't it true that the more friends you have, the happier you are?
That must be the happier point of people with more friends than those with fewer friends, you know more people, and then screen from here, at least one or two true friends can be screened out, and you only know one or two people, but as long as a person is stabbed in the back, you will have no friends.
So we usually say that the fewer friends, the better the life, this less is not that you know fewer friends, but that you have fewer bosom friends, but it can be few, not nothing, because some words are not suitable for confiding in parents, let alone telling their partners, and friends are the most suitable tree holes.
I remember when I was in high school, I had a few very fixed meal partners, and there were also a few very fixed Xi partners, and the amazing thing is that we just had a meal and would go together, with a companion, talking and laughing more lively, and learning Xi partners was also purely about learning Xi together, in addition to learning Xi rarely talking about other topics, but real friends, usually do not eat together, nor learn Xi together, but can talk about everything.
If the original family encounters unhappiness or unfairness, you can talk to this friend, feel gloomy and unmotivated about life, or you can talk to this friend, which handsome guy you think is good-looking, or who is in love with whom, you can talk, with her, you seem to be particularly able to be yourself, such a friend is a very good friend.
Many years have passed, although there is little contact, but as long as you meet, it will immediately become nothing to talk about, you feel that she has not changed, and she also feels that you are the same as back then, getting along has nothing to do with interests, only pure emotional communication.
How do you find such friends?
In fact, you don't have to deliberately look for it, because you can feel the person with the same aura and frequency as you, and get along with him, you will find that you are very relaxed and free, and the biggest manifestation is that every word you say can be done without thinking.
Although we say that the quality of making friends is greater than the quantity, but if you want to find the right friend for you, you also need to have a quantity first, so don't feel that there are more friends to deal with and consume energy, many people you just need to maintain daily politeness to get along with each other, real friends are a long time together, just like we find a reason, first of all, you have to understand him, secondly, you are willing to know him better, and finally, you can accept and tolerate him, you can go on for a long time.
No one is perfect, including ourselves will have a lot of shortcomings, so if we meet a true friend, we can also try to tolerate each other's character shortcomings, life is not long, short is not short, can be encouraged in difficult times, in happy times someone to share, it is a very lucky thing.
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