In recent years, with the advancement of China's various policies to benefit farmers and farmers, earth-shaking changes have taken place in rural areas, and people's lives have begun to get better and better.
However, in recent years, there have been some strange phenomena in many rural areas, for example, there are now many rural areas with singles, and these school-age young people have not bad conditions, but even so, there is no way to find a suitable partner.
The difficulty of marrying a wife has now become one of the most concerned problems in more and more rural areas, and some young men even go so far as to "buy" a wife from other countries in order to start a family.
For such a problem, many people always feel that the current imbalance between men and women is caused by the traditional thinking of patriarchy in the past, of course, this is only part of the reason, and more importantly, the current thinking of young people has changed greatly.
Why?It is conceivable that even if the ratio of men and women is balanced and one to one pair, there will be many people who will not be able to marry a daughter-in-law.
In addition to economic reasons, many young women are reluctant to repeat the lives of older generations. I would rather work in a big city to earn money than stay in the countryside.
Even many women no longer want to be bound by marriage for the rest of their lives, and just want to live a free and easy life alone, which is also one of the main reasons for the increasingly serious problem of male singles.
Moreover, at present, the problem of singles has not been solved, and these five strange phenomena have appeared in the countryside. Let's find out:
First, the divorce rate is getting higher.
Although there are many older young men in rural areas who cannot find a partner, many people who have found a partner are also facing some thorny problems, such as the divorce rate, which has become more and more common in rural areas in recent years.
This is mainly because many young people in our rural areas are married by enjoying themselves, and they do not understand each other, let alone establish any emotional foundation.
In addition, in order to be able to marry a wife, in order to be able to meet the requirements of the woman's bride price, buy a house, etc., and even accumulate debts, and in order to repay the debts, many men will most likely choose to work in the city after marriage, so as to repay the debts as soon as possible.
However, this long-term life of gathering more and leaving less is more likely to lead to two people parting ways
Second, there are more and more vacant buildings.
Nowadays, more and more young people in rural areas are moving to the cities for development, and no matter how magnificent the buildings built in the rural areas are, they are not willing to stay in the rural areas.
As a result, there are more and more vacant buildings in rural areas. If it is not used for a long time, it will also cause a waste of assets.
In addition, the wind of comparison in some rural areas is also getting stronger and stronger, even if young people do not stay at home all the year round, but the intensifying psychology of comparison has even led to many rural people borrowing debts to build high-rise buildings, even if they do not live often after building buildings, but they live on the face, and their hearts are happy for a while. This has also led to an increase in high-rise buildings in rural areas, but also a higher vacancy rate.
Third, the land is becoming more and more deserted.
In the eyes of the older generation of rural people, the land is the precious wealth given by God to the farmers, and only by sweating on the land can they bear the desired fruits.
Nowadays, for young people, they would rather go out to work than farm in the countryside, after all, relying on land income, they can neither enjoy the social security shared by enterprises, nor can they meet their ideal income, and cannot achieve their goal of improving the quality of life by hard work.
Because of this, the land desolation in the countryside has begun to become more and more serious.
Fourth, the comparison of human feelings is getting heavier and heavier.
In the minds of many people, they all think that rural people pay more attention to the sophistication of human feelings, but with the passage of time, this kind of sophistication has now changed its flavor and become more and more serious.
Nowadays, in some rural areas, wedding banquets are compared, bride prices are compared, and even white ceremonies are also compared. In the village, there is often a situation of eating banquets at two ends in three days, and in addition to weddings and funerals, this kind of banquet even has some other unwarranted names.
Such as: full moon wine, college banquet, etc., I have seen a very funny banquet, the house to change the curtain to have a banquet, it is really getting stranger and stranger....
Fifth, there is a strong atmosphere of thin maintenance and thick burial.
As the old saying goes, there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, which means that the parents are old and sick, and once they need to take care of them, the children can still be responsible for a while, but in the long run, few people can take care of their parents as they did when they took care of themselves.
You must know that supporting your parents is a natural thing in itself, but now there is a trend of thin support and rich burial in many rural areas. When his parents were alive, he didn't care about his parents, and when his parents died, he even made a big deal about his parents' funeral, so as to show off his economic strength and filial piety.
As everyone knows, before the old man died, his children's words and deeds were seen by relatives and friends, and just after the old man died, he did nothing decently, but he could not prove that he was once very filial, but let the villagers poke their backbones in the back.
I don't know if there are these strange phenomena in your rural areas?
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