I read a sentence on the Internet:
Sometimes, we are tired of living, not because we are too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the atmosphere of the outside world and swayed by the emotions of others.I'm sure many people have had this experience, and some people around you are always dictating your choices, from dressing up to personal emotional issues
I obviously don't want to do something, because I can't wipe off my face, and I am afraid of leaving a bad impression on others, so I force myself to accept it;
When a friend complains to you about an emotional problem, you will be misunderstood by the other partner, even if it is just a comforting word, and the relationship will be provoked.
Sometimes, we feel tired of living, not because of the pressure that life itself puts on us, but because we put too much pressure on ourselves to deal with those who come into contact with us.
So, you might as well make a little change to reduce the burden on your life and make it simpler.
Block out useless sounds
Have you noticed that no matter how well you dress up and how much you pay attention to your words and deeds, there will always be people who will find faults?
I remember when I was Xi, there was a teacher who didn't know why he just looked at me unpleasantly, and sometimes he would mock me in front of everyone.
My tutor comforted me and said that in fact, that teacher was relatively straightforward and not bad-hearted.
I said, "It's okay, maybe we don't have the right magnetic field, and the repulsion is stronger." ”
After work, some people in the department always talked about me as a non-treatment. I'm too lazy to take care of it, and it's not my turn to talk about my private affairs.
We're not the little pinks that everyone will like. How you look is natural, what you dress, you just like it.
Our personal affairs such as dating, marriage and love are not related to the talk of unrelated people.
Block out those useless voices, they will only bring you negative emotions and will not be beneficial, so don't let them lead you by the nose.
Don't be a good person
Sometimes you hear the words, "I'm working so hard, it's not for this family!".Also, "How much have Mom and Dad suffered for you!."”
Before, hearing such words would make me feel pity. But now that I think about it, isn't it all my own choice?
It's like the complaints that I often encounter in the workplace about what XXX has done and what has led to me, isn't this all my own choice?
Many times, in fact, in order to set up a good persona, we take on responsibilities that do not belong to us against our will.
I've helped others, and others have to read me, at least not let others say I'm not easy to get along with.
In fact, even if you do a hundred things for others, they will not think you are good from the bottom of their heartsAs long as you do one thing that they are not satisfied with, all your 100 good deeds will be wiped out, and you will also attract complaints.
Don't be a good person, don't take care of irrelevant things, live a simple life, and naturally make it easier.
Don't interfere with other people's rights and wrongs
A while ago, I heard my cousin Xiaoying say that she broke off with her best friend every day, because she came to her every day to complain to her boyfriend as soon as she quarreled.
Xiaoying knows that she can't do without her boyfriend every day, so she can only persuade her to open a little, and then accompany her to eat hot pot and watch movies to relieve negative emotions.
However, after reconciling with her boyfriend every day, her boyfriend misunderstood Xiaoying for provoking their relationship during their quarrel.
Xiaoying wanted to know how this misunderstanding came about, but she didn't tell the truth every day.
So, Xiaoying decisively blocked Tiantian and cut off her girlfriend relationship for nearly 20 years.
The rights and wrongs of others, especially emotional conflicts, must be kept away.
When people are angry, they will say that the other party is useless, but once they are reconciled, in order for both parties to be comfortable, they will find a blame for this contradiction.
We must not carry this pot. Sometimes it may seem like a small thing, but in fact, the impact is beyond imagination.
Don't inexplicably carry the heavy products of other people's momentary emotions, and go your own way with ease.
"I am tired because I have extra things in my heart. ”
You have to think about how the outside world sees you, you have to take into account the feelings of others, and you have to carry so many things that don't belong to you, can you not get tired?
Don't just take the responsibility, sometimes it's time to stop and clean up.
Throw away what doesn't belong to you, don't pick up what you shouldn't carry, make yourself easier, and have more energy to plan your own route.
May we all live a simpler life and move forward with ease.