The ancient Greek philosopher Plato once said, "Family education is the foundation of society." "Nowadays, social development has improved the standard of living, but parents are also more concerned about their children's education. For many parents, the issue of their children's education has always been a pain in their hearts. In ordinary families, parents often entrust their children to their grandparents and go out to work for their livelihood, resulting in a serious problem of left-behind children, and most of them drop out of school. Even in relatively wealthy families, parents tend to use money to compensate for their love for their children, which unconsciously affects their children's growth.
Family, the best harbor for children.
For children, family is the best harbor, and parents are the best teachers. Parents' lifestyle, way of thinking, and parenting style will profoundly affect a child's personality, psychology, and behavior, and may affect a child's growth in the long run. During Xi, we often hear the saying of "high scores and low ability", and this phenomenon does exist, and even becomes common, and is closely related to the family environment. Nowadays, the term "giant baby" is widely used on the Internet to describe people who have reached adulthood but whose minds are stagnant in early childhood, showing their immaturity.
Giant Female Baby Liu Siqi: At the age of 16, she needs to be fed by her mother, and her daily expenditure is more than 10,000 yuan
Liu Siqi's parents belong to the high-income class and the family is relatively wealthy. Due to her busy work, her parents adopted a doting education, so that she was Xi to being treated obediently. In order to make up for the lack of their daughter, parents indulge her with money, and no matter what she wants to buy, no matter how expensive it is, the parents will try to satisfy her. In terms of housework, her daughter never participates, and even needs her mother to feed her during meals. This pampered lifestyle has had a huge impact on her character.
Spoiling has become a habit, and the mentality of giant babies is difficult to change.
For normal people, at the age of 16, they are basically able to live independently, including laundry and cooking. However, Liu Siqi still needs to be fed by his mother at the age of 16, and has developed the Xi of spending money, and his daily expenses have exceeded 10,000 yuan, which is largely affected by the family environment. Because parents do not pay attention to the education of their daughters, by the time they want to intervene, their daughters have grown up**, and many bad Xi are difficult to correct, making parents feel distressed. Liu Siqi's deeds were in a show "Metamorphosis", which made everyone feel unbelievable, but they were also relieved because of her later changes.
The difficult journey awakens the growth of the giant girl.
In the show, Liu Siqi experienced several months of rural life. At first, it was difficult for her to adapt, but gradually she understood a lot of truths. Liu Siqi began to adapt to the life of ordinary people, realizing that money could not buy everything, and the simplicity of rural children deeply moved her and became her role model for Xi school. After returning to the city, Liu Siqi's personality changed greatly, she no longer relied on her parents for feeding, and began to spend money in moderation, which made her parents very happy.
One experience changes a life, the importance of family education.
The short rural experience directly changed Liu Siqi's life and became an integral part of her upbringing. Although she is still a little headstrong, she has changed dramatically from before. Liu Siqi's experience is not unique, and similar situations still exist in society, which is enough to warn parents to pay attention to their children's family education, because education is not only the task of the school, but also the important role of parents. Readers, what do you think about this?
The article profoundly reflects the great role of family education in shaping individual character and values. Liu's story is a vivid and thought-provoking example of the negative effects of doting education. I have the following comments on this.
First of all, the importance of homeschooling cannot be underestimated. The article mentions the famous words of the ancient Greek philosopher Plato: "Family education is the foundation of society." This view is vividly confirmed in Liu Siqi's case. The way parents live and educate their children has a profound impact on their children's development. Parents play the most important role in this process, and their words and deeds directly shape their children's character and values.
Secondly, doting education has a negative impact on children's growth that cannot be ignored. Liu Siqi's case shows that excessive indulgence and doting led to a distorted personality and immature behavior. When she was 16 years old and still needed to be fed by her mother, and her daily expenses exceeded 10,000 yuan, we saw the extreme performance of doting. This style of education made her become too dependent on money and life, and she had a difficult to adapt mentality to difficult adversity.
However, the article also shows the possibility of change. Through the experience of rural life in "Metamorphosis", Liu Siqi deeply realized that money cannot solve all problems, and more self-care and independent ability are needed in life. This experience awakened her understanding of life and allowed her to show positive changes when she returned to the city. This shows that even in the shadow of doting education, it is still possible for individuals to grow and change through some targeted experiences and education.
Finally, the article reminds us to be wary of the phenomenon of "giant babies". This is not just Liu Siqi's case, there are many similar situations in society. In modern society, parents often lack time to spend with their children due to their busy work, which leads them to make up for it with money and material things. Although this method can provide material satisfaction on the surface, it ignores the spiritual and emotional needs of children, and is easy to cause the formation of a "giant baby" mentality.
In summary, this article provokes thinking about modern family education methods by in-depth analysis of a family education case. Family education should focus on balance, not only focusing on material satisfaction, but also cultivating children's independent thinking and autonomy. Dodging and pampering parenting often have negative consequences, but with targeted education and experiences, there is still hope for positive changes in a child's development.
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