Oh, I've heard a lot about winning my husband's heart. But don't worry, as an expert in marriage and love emotional counseling, I'm not a vegetarian!Next, I will give you a few tricks to ensure that you can win your husband's heart again and make love as sweet as ever!
First, find out the problem, in order to prescribe the right medicine
First of all, you have to understand why your husband's heart is far away from you. Is it because there is a communication problem between you?Or is it because he thinks you don't care enough about him?Or is there too much ** outside?Only by finding out the problem can we solve it in a targeted manner.
How to find it?You can try to recall when you became estranged from each other. Then, think about what special things happened during that time. Is there something that has caused you to have a misunderstanding or conflict?Make a list of these problems and solve them one by one.
2. Change yourself and make your husband's eyes shine
Once you've figured out what's wrong, it's time to change yourself. Remember, the change here is not to lose yourself in order to cater to your husband's preferences, but to make adjustments to get along better with your husband.
For example, if the problem between you is because you don't care enough about him, then you can try to care more about his life and work, ask him more if he is tired, if he needs help, etc.
For example, if the problem between you is because you are too strong, then you can try to be gentle and listen to his opinions and ideas.
3. Relive the good memories and awaken the love of your husband
While changing yourself, don't forget to relive the good memories between you. Think about how you all came together in the first placeAre there any particularly sweet moments?Find out these memories and share them with your husband.
You can find the right time and occasion to reminisce about these good times with your husband. For example, cook a hearty dinner at home on the weekend, and then watch the video of the wedding or ** together.
When you reminisce about those good times together, the love in your husband's heart will also be reawakened.
4. Communicate openly and honestly to eliminate misunderstandings and contradictions
Communication is the key to solving the problem and a necessary step to save your husband's heart. You need to communicate openly with your husband about each other's thoughts and feelings, talk about all the problems, and then find solutions together.
In the process of communication, you should pay attention to the tone and style, and try to avoid accusations and attacks. You can express your feelings and needs, but also respect your husband's thoughts and feelings. Only when both parties open their hearts can the best way to solve the problem be found.
Fifth, give space and time to let love warm up naturally
Finally, and very important, is to give each other enough space and time to let love warm up naturally. Sometimes we rush too much and make things worse.
So when you have done the above four steps, you need to wait patiently for a while to see how your husband reacts. If he starts to take the initiative to communicate with you, or cares more about you, then it means that your recovery plan is half successful!Next, you just need to continue to maintain this good interactive relationship, and believe that your love will soon return to the sweet period!