A friend is divorced, three years have passed alone, free, and her parents are afraid that after she leaves, she is alone and has no support, and persuades her to remarry.
She replied domineeringly: If you meet someone like him again, it is better to be alone.
Parents stopped talking.
My friend is 40 years old or 2 years old, because of his good mentality, he looks a few years younger than his age, and he still has a return rate when he walks on the road.
In the past three years of divorce, there is no shortage of suitors around. But she all refused indifferently.
She said to her best friend that she is getting older, she can't see anything well, and she feels that her eyes are becoming more and more critical, and no one can get into it.
In real life, as long as life is passable, as long as they have the ability to survive, the vast majority of divorced women will not remarry, the reason is disappointment in marriage, in fact, more because their aesthetics have become higher and more picky, and it is difficult for ordinary people to enter their eyes.
When they are young, they may sink into the appearance of men and be infatuated with the little warmth of men, but as they get older and more emotionally mature, they are no longer easily moved.
The requirements for men will also be higher and higher.
Just because of the high requirements, the average man can no longer meet their standards, and they would rather be single than wronged themselves.
Therefore, divorced women, as long as they can live, will basically not remarry.
The same goes for older leftover women, many people think that the reason why older leftover women can't marry is because they are picky, but in fact, the reality is just the opposite.
The real picky ones are the older leftover women, but if they lower their conditions even a little, they can get married with their eyes closed.
But in reality, the older leftover women want both love and material.
They don't like the Prince of Dark Horses yet, they have to be Prince Charming.
But life is realistic, not a fairy tale, so they are picky until the end, and only the years are left to accompany them.
The elementary school classmate is 42 years old, unmarried, and a proper older leftover girl.
In fact, before she reached the age of 40, she had two chances to get married, and the man basically did not ask for it, as long as she nodded.
The result is that she is not satisfied, the first man, she thinks that the other party is not good-looking, a little ugly, and will affect the child's genes. The second man, she dislikes the other party's poor material conditions, and after getting married, her quality of life will be reduced.
She once said frankly that she has waited for so many years, and if she lowers her conditions because of her age, it will not be too sorry for her so many years of waiting.
If she had to make a choice, she would rather stay single.
The reason why older leftover women don't get married is roughly like this.
When you are young, with a little sunshine, you will be satisfied.
However, as you get older, this point of sunlight will feel not warm enough, not bright enough, and need more sunlight, or even the whole sun.
At this point, men are the most self-aware.
Men are basically in a state of automatic regression for mature women, because they know that mature women are mature not only by age, but also by intelligence, emotional intelligence, and emotion.
In real life, the only things that men can fool are young women.
Because they are not demanding and not picky, they can be moved and accepted by a little bit.
Older women, on the other hand, are picky and demanding.
They look at the opposite sex as if they are holding a magnifying glass, paying attention to every detail, every corner, and every subtle condition.
Therefore, the older they get, the less they desire marriage and the more they ignore emotions.