In the world of love, everyone hopes that their relationship can last for a long time and be able to go on with their beloved.
However, it is not easy to achieve this, and it requires both parties to work together and maintain.
In fact, whether it is between lovers or lovers, they all hope that this relationship can last for a long time. Some people may say that extramarital affairs are immoral, but everyone thinks differently, so everyone's choices will be different.
For couples, it is still easy to have a long-lasting relationship, as long as they understand and tolerate each other, the relationship can last for a long time.
But for extramarital affairs, it is not easy to make this relationship last, after all, extramarital affairs cannot be discovered by outsiders, and the most important thing is to be together every day.
However, some extramarital affairs can indeed last for a long time without being discovered, as long as these three bottom lines are not broken.
01. Respect each other
Mutual respect is the basis for long-term relationships between lovers, and everyone has their own values, lifestyles and Xi, and these differences will inevitably cause friction in the relationship.
Therefore, for a relationship to last, both parties must learn to respect each other's differences and tolerate each other's shortcomings.
First and foremost, respect the other person's personal space and privacy. Everyone has their own privacy and personal space that cannot be invaded. In a relationship, both parties should give each other enough space and freedom, and not interfere too much in each other's life and privacy. Only in this way can the foundation of trust and respect be established.
Second, respect the other person's opinions and decisions. In relationships, there will inevitably be disagreements and contradictions. At this time, both parties should communicate calmly, respect each other's opinions and decisions, and do not impose their ideas on each other. Only in this way can conflicts and frictions be avoided and problems can be solved together.
Finally, respect each other's lifestyles and Xi. Everyone has their own lifestyles and Xi, and some may be different from each other. In a relationship, both parties should respect each other's lifestyle and Xi, do not try to change each other, but learn to accept and adapt. Only in this way can the relationship be more stable and long-lasting.
02. Good at communication
Communication is the foundation of maintaining a relationship, and only through communication can conflicts be resolved and each other's thoughts can be understood.
Communication in a relationship is not only about talking, but also about listening and understanding, and only through effective communication can we truly understand the needs of the other person, so as to establish a deep emotional foundation.
However, in a relationship, many people tend to only care about their own feelings and ignore the feelings of the other person.
For example, when two people disagree on a matter, one of them may force the other to respect his or her decision and reject the other person's opinion altogether.
After a long time, the other party will feel that they are not valued, and slowly, the two people will quarrel, which will affect the relationship.
Therefore, whether it is between lovers or lovers, when encountering problems, they must be good at communicating and understanding each other's thoughts.
In fact, sometimes giving up your own opinions and choosing to respect the other party's opinions can make the relationship last longer, because the other party feels your attention and is willing to pay more in this relationship.
03. Don't talk about money
Some people feel that it is normal for two people to talk about money between them, after all, two people are together, they have to eat, they have to go out to play, so it is normal to spend money on each other.
However, this refers to couples, lovers must not talk about money, because the relationship between lovers is not accepted by the public in the first place.
Some people feel that when a person has an extramarital affair, the purpose is to make money and satisfy their vanity.
Therefore, once you often talk to the other party about money and often ask the other party to buy you things, the other party will think that you are only with him for money, not for him as a person.
At this time, how can he be sincere to you, maybe he will end this extramarital affair.
Therefore, although a lover relationship is also a kind of love relationship, when it comes to money, never take the initiative to ask for it.
If the other party is willing to spend money on you, even if you don't say it, it will be spent on you, and if the other party doesn't want to spend money on you, even if you say it, it will not help, and it will make the other party suspicious.
In short, if you want a long-term relationship with lovers, don't break the above three bottom lines.
Although extramarital affairs can bring people short-term happiness, but more painful, whether it is a man or a woman, do not try to have an extramarital affair easily, once the extramarital affair is exposed, it is you who will be hurt.