In the village, young men and women have different opportunities and destinies. Some people with a little knowledge got the opportunity to work in the factory, and some became private teachers in local schools and started a new life. There are also some knowledgeable young people who are not so lucky, and they choose to stay in the countryside. They face the loess and their backs to the sky. Young people from slightly better families, at the age of twenty-five or sixteen, married wives and had children early, and lived an ordinary and stable life. However, there are also some young people who lack ambition and live a lazy life. They reach the age of twenty-five or sixteen, but they still haven't met a partner who suits them. Their parents worked day and night, with sad faces and unsatisfactory lives. There is a large family in the village, with three brothers and two sisters, plus their parents, they are also considered rich and noble in the village. The two sisters got married earlyMarriageHappy. However, the three brothers took different paths. The eldest was flamboyant when he was young, but for some reason, his hair fell out and he became a bald man. The second child did not take the exam after graduating from high schoolGo to college, he was afraid of hardship, neither joined the army, nor did he learn a craft, he was idle all day long, and did not do his job. There was also a lot of hair loss. The youngest of the third child, after graduating from middle school, had the courage to study and work, and learned bricklayer skills from a master bricklayer, and did a good job. His appearance is very spiritual. A sister-in-law in the village introduced him to a suitable girl, and the two decided to marry after discussion. The Boss, however, gets weirder and weirder as he gets older. He was often heard standing at the door in the middle of the night and cursing loudly, or peeking at his little daughter-in-law taking a bath. In my childhood memories, once my mother took me back from watching a play in another village, when we were about to get homeThere is a personHe came out from behind, startling my mom and me. They ***, and the mother with three children at home scolded the bald boss. The whole village, young and youngWomenis still a girl, and she will stay away from the bald boss and the bald dick. However, the third child has been working as a bricklayer all the year round, and he met a young and beautiful girl from the next town on the construction site, and forgot about the marriage he was engaged to in his hometown. After the news spread in the village, the third brother's maiden brother was dissatisfied and turned upside down. Despite this, the third child still decided to quit his family and take the girl to Xinjiang to work.
When the bald boss was almost forty years old, there were several Sichuan in the outer villagesWomenMarried, the economy of western China in the 80s was relatively backward, but compared with the interior, the situation was not bad. A Sichuan woman married a bald boss with her two children. In the second year of marriage, this Sichuan woman gave birth to a boy to the bald eldest child, who was my cousin. The birth of this child is a bit miraculous, because when he was almost 20 years old, he was in an accident while working with his relatives in Xinjiang, and he suddenly made the bald boss a lot older. When I returned to my hometown for the Chinese New Year, I went to the bald boss's house on the morning of the first day of the new year to pay New Year's greetings, and when I saw him and his wife huddled at home, I couldn't help but feel a sour feeling in my heart.
In the village, the bald second child stayed until he was almost thirty years old and did not solve his own problemsMarriageIssue. Hearing that his brother was doing a good job in Xinjiang, he also spent a train ticket to go to Xinjiang, hoping to find a wife there and start a family. Unexpectedly, he really found a new home in Xinjiang, married a wife and had children, and everything went well. A few years ago, when I went back to my hometown for the Chinese New Year, I chatted with the bald second child, and he told me that both of them were living well in Xinjiang. They regret that they were ignorant when they were young and took many detours, but they are glad that they finally found the right direction and got back on track. His elder brother is now old and his children have unfortunately died, but the two children brought by his wife in Sichuan are still very filial, the daughter often comes home to visit them, and the son helps them plough the land. These things that happen in the village are often the talk of the town after dinner.
This story tells us that the fate of each family is different, but it is inseparable from the example of parentsHomeschoolingThe importance of the matter. In this village, the fates of those young people have been greatly diverged by different choices. Some people have found good jobs and lives in other places, while others have chosen to stay in the village. However, only those young people who dare to study and work hard to get out of the confusion and lost path can find their own happiness and a way out. Family'sEducationIt is not only necessary to have the right values and a positive attitude, but more importantly, to set the right example of behavior for the next generation. The people of this village have experienced many charms and struggles, but in the end they have all found their own happiness on different paths. This story has given us a profound enlightenment: it is very meaningful to cultivate children to be independent and self-reliant. Only by studying hard and working hard can we reach our ideal life. HomeschoolingIt is essential to shape one's life path. ThisHomeschoolingNot only do you have the right values and a positive attitude, but you also need to lead by example and be a role model for your children. Only through thisEducationOnly then can our next generation faithfully experience the joys of life and realize their dreams.