Eventually, our family moved into this new home. The new home is not big, but it is enough for us. The process of moving was hard, but the thought of making a home here in the future made it all worth it.
On the day of the move, my husband and I were busy all day, packing our luggage and setting up the furniture, and we were relieved until nightfall. At this point, I suddenly realized that I had forgotten to lock the door, so I hurriedly ran to the door. Just as I was about to walk towards the door, I was attracted by a noise.
When I looked closely, it turned out to be the groom's relatives who were making a wedding trouble. They were holding some props in their hands and kept shouting, and their husbands were being joked by them. Looking at these people's triumphant looks, my heart was filled with resentment. This kind of activity of marriage trouble originally disgusted me, but I also knew that this was part of our Xi custom, but suddenly seeing this scene made me unbearable.
I walked over quickly and said loudly, "Hurry up, this is not a place for marriages!"."My voice wasn't loud, but it was enough to get their attention. The bridegroom's relatives looked at me and burst out laughing. "Little girl, this is our traditional Xi, what do you know as an outsider. A middle-aged man said.
Yes, don't make trouble here, it's not a fitting blessing for us. I said in a firm tone. The husband was also persuaded by the side, but his relatives were unmoved. The scene was a little awkward, and I felt a little helpless. At this time, my husband suddenly said in a deep voice: "Enough, you've made enough trouble, leave now." ”
No one expected the old man to be so tough on his relatives, and it also surprised me a little. Seeing what his relatives wanted to say, I quickly pulled my husband and motioned for them to leave. Finally, with the persuasion of my husband and me, the group left.
I breathed a sigh of relief and looked at my husband, only to see him frown. "Why are you doing this, they're just joking. He said, a little angry in his tone.
Angered by his words, I glared back at him, "Don't you even know why?"It made me very unhappy. ”
Before the words fell, I felt a sharp pain, and it turned out that my husband slapped me. This time, I was frightened again and rubbed my cheeks, only to find myself speechless.
Why are you willing to hit me like this!I asked angrily, tears streaming down my face.
The husband's expression was a little complicated, and he was silent for a while, and finally sighed. "I'm sorry I didn't control myself. He whispered, seemingly regretting his actions.
Can't control it?Do you think this will solve the problem?I said in a trembling voice. I didn't expect him to make a move on me. My heart was full of grievances, and a wave of anger suddenly rolled in my heart. I think he may have made a move to avoid disgrace to his relatives, but he should also think about my feelings.
The quarrel between us did not quell the conflict, but only intensified the emotions on both sides. We became more and more stubborn on the opposite side, and I firmly believed that marriage troubles should not happen in our family, and he thought that I should not interfere with his family. This quarrel made the rift between us clearer, and the seemingly small contradiction became an insurmountable gap in communication between us.
In the days that followed, our relationship became more and more strained. The originally warm and harmonious family relationship became strange and awkward. Even if we don't talk about this quarrel anymore, it is like a thorn in our hearts.
A few months later, I found out I was pregnant. It was supposed to be a happy thing, but when I told my husband, his face didn't have the joy I expected. He seems to be more worried about the contradictions between us. I was even more disappointed in this, but I didn't say it to him.
The life that had just stabilized was shattered again. That day, my husband suddenly told me that he was going on a business trip and that he might have to go for a while. I was a little surprised, and a little angry. After all, I need him by my side now. However, the husband's decision seems to have been made, and any persuasion seems weak.
It was getting dark, and I watched my husband leave in anger, leaving me alone in the yard. My cheeks still have the pain he threw over just now, but my heart is full of helplessness and grievances. The marriage trouble did not let me show it, but the contradictions and dissatisfaction in my heart broke out at this moment.
Back in the house, I sat quietly on the couch by myself, recalling the scene I had just seen. I didn't mean to get along with my husband's relatives, but my sense of principle was touched. And my husband had never treated me like this before, and this slap made me start to doubt our relationship.
Just as I was in a state of confusion and contemplation, my phone rang. I picked up **, it's my husband's mother.
Xiaoming, today is the first day of your move, and as an elder, I want to come and see you. "
Mom, thank you for your concern, but it may not be convenient today. "I tried to regain some composure, but I couldn't calm down for a long time.
Okay, you guys make good arrangements, I'll come back later. * came the kind voice of my mother. After hanging up**, I sighed.
It didn't take long for my husband to come back, but it was as if nothing had happened. I tried to apologize to him, but was stopped by his serious look.
I know you're doing it for good, but treat my relatives with respect. "He said. Looking at his serious expression, I began to reflect on my own actions.
I'm sorry, maybe I was too impulsive. I whispered.
He shook his head and turned away, leaving me standing alone. Back in my room, I lay on my bed with a lot of thoughts. The conflict between my family members weighs on me. I thought I was doing the right thing, but my husband's attitude made me start to doubt myself.