Women, tender like water, also have a persistent and ruthless side. In the face of a difficult career path, they bravely persevered;They do not easily forgive men for their wrongdoings;in the everydaylife, they control their desires and have a good ** and figure. These cruelties to themselves make women'slifeThe more smoothly it crosses.
The post-80s mother of the second child is a working woman, her husband often travels on business, and she is responsible for taking care of the two children by herself, struggling to maintain the familylife。She wakes up early and goes to bed early every day, and manages her time compactly. Despite her friends advising her to quit, she insisted on continuing to work and insisting on the importance of independent income. She compares herself to a spinning top, even if she is tired, she does not stop, she clearly knows that her career is the motivation and confidence for her to persevere.
Another post-70s mother with a second child, she is almost forty years old, but she still decided to have a second child. Although her husband offered to let her quit her job and go home, she insisted on continuing to work, despite the fact that it would take a lot of time and money to take care of the children. She understands that even when her children grow up, work is still the guarantee of her independence. She chose to keep her career and not rely on others.
In educational psychology, there are two concepts, which are "natural consequences" and "logical consequences". The former refers to allowing children to experience the real consequences of their own decisionsIn the latter, adults intervene in advance to help children avoid problems. You can be kind to children, but you can't be so easy to forgive when you treat men. Once a man makes a mistake, he should be punished harshly and made him bear the consequences for his actions. If women are tolerant and forgiving, men will feel that their mistakes are not important and will be exacerbated. Women must be clear about their bottom line and principles, and insist on being ruthless.
in the everydaylifeIn , women need to be ruthless in their desires and control themselvesDietwithExercise。Only by keeping your mouth shut and opening your legs can you have a good figure andHealthof physique. Women need to understand that coveting temporary pleasures will only pay a greater price. Of course, this does not mean going on a hunger strike or excessivelyExercise, but with the right amount of control and persistence. aHealthThe body is a woman's pursuit of career and happinesslifeThe foundation.
InlifeWomen often face all kinds of bad things, such as shopping, food, men, etc. However, if a woman blindly chases these **, it is easy to fall into the consumption trap and emotional whirlpool. Therefore, women need to ruthlessly reject these bad ** and maintain control over themselves. Only by sticking to your own principles can you stay away from bad ** and maintainHealthoflifeway and happinesslife
Laziness and procrastination are womenlifeThey can get women into trouble and make them lose time and opportunity. Women want to thinklifeThe more smoothly it gets, the more you can't tolerate your laziness and procrastination. They need to understand that time is money and opportunities are fleeting. Only by being ruthless with one's own laziness and procrastination can we usher in a better onelifeand careers.