The emotional deficit is like a cinnabar mole in the heart, stinging slightly, but lingering. In the face of this guilt, how can we make up for it, how can we redeem the good old days?
Face up to your guilt. The debt of emotion is not material to be repaid, but requires sincere apology and the baptism of time. In the face of past misses and hurts, we must learn to face them calmly, sincerely apologize to each other, and express our remorse. This process may be painful, but only by facing it bravely can we find the key to solving the problem.
Try to make amends. The relationship between people is like a mirror, broken can be repaired, but the rift will always exist. We must try our best to repair those broken times, and use practical actions to care for and take care of each other, so that the other party can feel our intentions. It may be a long process, but as long as we don't give up, we will always see the light of hope.
There are some small details in life that can be borrowed. For example, on a cold winter day, make a cup of hot tea for each other;On a busy working day, send a love bento to each other;In their leisure time, accompany each other to walk along the forest paths. These seemingly insignificant gestures can warm people's hearts and make the other party feel our love.
Learn to let go. Sometimes, emotional deficits don't have to be made up for. In the face of an irretrievable past, we must learn to let go, give each other a free space, and let ourselves get rid of that heavy burden. Only by letting go of the past can we easily embrace the future.
Letting go doesn't mean giving up. We can leave a place in our hearts for that feeling, cherish those good memories, and cherish the people and things in front of us. Only by grasping the happiness of the present can we make up for the regrets of the past.
In the process, we also need to learn to introspect. Reflect on your own shortcomings in your relationship so that you can avoid repeating the mistakes of the past in your future life. Introspection matures us and makes us know how to love. Only by knowing how to introspect can we truly come out of the shadows of the past.
Cherish the people in front of you. Every encounter in life is a gift of fate. Cherish the people in front of you, care for them with your heart, and let them feel our warmth. This love is undoubtedly a repayment of past emotional debts, and it is also a promise to future life.
In the face of emotional deficits, we must learn to face them bravely, work hard to make up for them, learn to let go, introspect and grow, and cherish the people in front of us. Only in this way can we dissolve the guilt in our hearts, step out of the shadow of the past, and welcome a better future.
As the saying goes, "Life is like a journey, making friends along the way, saying goodbye to the past along the way." "With apologies and gratitude, move on.