Today is December 31, 2023, summarize the various things and various expenses of that small house of more than 20 square meters:
On November 4, 2023, 600 yuan was transferred to my cousin (300 yuan for one man, 600 yuan for two), this fee has nothing to do with the small house, it is the money made up by every male family in the family to repair the public house. That evening, the whole family sat at the desk opposite Yang Shutian to discuss various matters related to the renovation of the public hall house.
On the evening of November 5, 2023, my cousin sent an invoice that he handed over to the public, proving that what he said was true, our own family in our own village is not in charge, and several families in other villages are in charge, and the ultimate goal is to make my own house like him, I resolutely told him that I have no ability to do it, and no one will help to do it, so I can only ask the public to help do it, and I will admit to paying for it, and I will break up with my cousin in **!
The small house of more than 20 square meters has collapsed for many years due to disrepair, and the public hall house shares a wall, and a neighbor in the village also shares a wall, it is really not easy to do, the most important thing is that there is no one to help themselves do, the family people held a meeting at the end, my sister-in-law came to me and asked me if I wanted the public to help build this small house, and my aunt in my own village also asked if I wanted the public to help build it, if you want, quickly open your mouth, let the public help build it.
Seeing this, I quickly got up, called the captain and the village steward, and asked them to help build the small house, and settle the accounts after it was built. The man in charge said, "As long as you promise to pay, the rest will be easy!"”
I thought that this small house was built with the help of the public, so I didn't have to worry about it, but after the meeting, my cousin called ** to talk to me, which probably means that I was blamed for not listening to him, and built it myself like him, if it was built for the public, the people in the village would gossip in the future, and some people would say that I didn't pay for it, or took advantage of the government, and gossip could drown people.
I said, "As long as I pay for it, I don't care what others say, it's too tiring to live in other people's mouths for the rest of my life!."When my cousin saw that he couldn't move me, he hung up very angrily. Later, I don't know what happened, but a few people in charge of the public family seemed to have forgotten about it, and didn't care about the affairs of this small house at all, and I don't know what happened in it.
Or my cousin called ** on November 15, 2023 to tell me that there was no one in the public family to help me build a house, so I could only build it myself, and he had asked the people in the village to help me get rid of the extra soil from the collapsed small house. On November 16, there was still a little soil in the small house, so I asked my uncle from the same village to help me clean it, and my cousin asked me to buy a pack of cigarettes for 22 yuan and a bottle of water for my uncle, which cost a total of 25 yuan.
After Tuqing left, I said to my cousin: "The walls on both sides of the communal, one side is built by neighbors, and the other side is built by the public, and I admit to paying half of the money on both sides, and now there is no one to help build the walls and roofs on both sides of the door and window, and my cousin said that he asked his own house builder to see if the master is willing to do it, and he will reply to me the next day." The next day, my cousin said that his housebuilder had gone to work in another house, and the implication could not be more obvious, that there was no one to help build the walls on both sides of the windows and doors of my house.
The second day of the ** hit was Saturday, November 18, due to the tossing and turning of this small house on Friday night, Saturday slept until half past eight in the morning and did not get up, the cousin of the same village called ** to ask about this small house, she tentatively asked me if I wanted to sell this house, after all, the area is too small, it is not realistic to live in a family, and two of the four walls are shared with others, there are too many things involved, and there is no water, no electricity and no one, it is better to sell it to others.
I told my cousin that it would be better if the house could be built, and if it couldn't be built, even if the house collapsed there, it would not be sold, because as soon as it was sold, it would be sold, and at least it would be my own. My cousin asked me again if I wanted to build it, and if anyone could help me build it?I told my cousin that I definitely wanted to build the house, but no one helped. Cousin, I went to my aunt's house in the same village, and she also went, and the three of us met and discussed it later.
After a few minutes of discussion, my aunt and cousin took me to the public hall and asked me to say hello to my 60-year-old cousin, who was working there, and asked him to help me build the walls on both sides of the door and window.
After hesitating for a while, he asked me to buy the materials myself, and he came to help with the work, and the family members were all around the old cousin, saying that I was a woman at home with several children, and I didn't know anything about building a house, and asked him to help, use the materials of the government, and calculate the money together in the future. The old cousin didn't know if it was for the sake of face or for whatever reason, so he agreed. After the old cousin agreed to help, when I went to ask my cousin how big the doors and windows he wanted to buy, my cousin still couldn't believe that someone would help build the house, and asked who would help me build it, telling him that he was an old cousin, and my cousin's eyes widened and he couldn't believe it.
On the second floor of his house, he saw a lot of people talking to me in the public hall, and he smiled and told me not to buy materials, just use his materials. Later, he told me to buy a pack of cigarettes for my cousin, I asked if I wanted to buy water, and my cousin said that he would definitely want it, and his house had no water, otherwise he would use his water, and this time it cost 26 yuan to buy cigarettes and water.
I thought it was safe this time, but I didn't expect that on the second day of the start of the public hall house, people with other surnames in the village went to the urban management bureau to report, hit ** report, the people of the urban management bureau drove two chengguan cars and a forklift, and suddenly made a noise, I lived outside the village, or the family group sent a message to me to rush over, the chengguan went for a few days, asked us to build a house to build a house, we couldn't get any procedures, and also gave us a notice of stoppage, and registered the names of our families.
Due to the interference of the city management, the work was suspended for more than ten days, thinking that the house would not be built for a while, our family also ran for several days, looking for the village to issue a certificate and seal, the village built, and then looking for the town leader to seal, looking for a week only on Monday met the leader, the leader is unwilling to build, the delay tactics are adopted, the next few days to find no one at all, the office is empty or the door is locked, we go with hope every time, but disappointed to return!
I thought that the small house had to be pushed back again, but I didn't expect my cousin to call ** again and say that he had an idea, to see if the neighbor couldn't do the common wall, if not, he went to buy a steel pipe to build it, and then the neighbor would do it again, and then use cement bricks to make the steel pipe inside, I asked my cousin two questions, first, do this, do you have any opinions?Second, is the steel pipe expensive?My cousin said that there are about five or six steel pipes, more than 100 yuan each, and the roof is made of resin tiles, about dozens of yuan per square meter. I thought it was okay to look like this, so I agreed to my cousin. This is followed by the start ...... of the transfer
On December 4, 2023, my cousin called voice ** and said that he wanted to help me build steel pipes and roofs, and needed money to buy steel pipes, and asked me to transfer 2,000 yuan to him firstWhat to do when buying rebar?The cousin said a little unhappily in **: "My family needs to add a beam to build a house, and now I want to buy steel bars, but I don't have any money on hand, you transfer 2,000 yuan first, and then calculate the general ledger together." "Think about it, my cousin helped me ask the master to do the work before, and he also bought the materials, and he also paid the money first, and he asked me for the money, so I transferred it and marked the word 'steel pipe' in the transfer.
On the morning of December 9th, I went to see the old house, and my cousin was about to go out to help the neighbor buy something, and the female neighbor helped carry cement at my cousin's house, and asked me to help with her. So I went to help carry the cement, and when it was almost eleven o'clock, my cousin asked me to help him go to the supermarket to buy some food in front of everyone, and when the food came back, he would give me money. I told him that he didn't know how to buy vegetables, he said that he used WeChat to send a voice message to tell me what vegetables to buy, there was no way, people had to bow their heads under the eaves, and they had no choice but to buy 154 according to his cousin's instructions60 dishes, plus a beer and a pack of 24 bottles of mineral water 56 yuan, I cook with my cousin's house and my sister-in-law, I am responsible for washing, cutting and cutting, and my sister-in-law is responsible for stir-frying. I also ate together at their house that day, and the children ate some bread at home.
On the evening of December 9, 2023, my cousin came to ask me to send him 1,000 yuan, saying that he would ask the boss to send cement and sand the next day, and the bricks used were public. was hesitating whether to continue to transfer money, and called his mother again to tell him about it, and his mother said that his cousin would contribute money and help worry about it, and asked himself if he should give the money, and settle the account together in the future. Just hung up on his mother's **, my cousin called ** again to talk about the money, and transferred another 1,000 yuan.
At about twelve o'clock at noon on December 18, 2023, my cousin suddenly sent a bill for the purchase of steel frames and roofing resin tiles, the bill was a delivery note, bits and pieces of various materials for the steel frame and roof, the total amount was 3889 yuan, and asked my cousin if the walls on both sides had not been settled, and my cousin said: Yes, the wall is not counted now, this is the roof that is built, and the bills are out, although I am a little puzzled about the 2000 yuan transferred before saying that it is good to buy the steel frame, and now I say that this nearly 4000 yuan is the money of the roof, but I still transferred 3890 yuan. After the cousin received the money, he wrote in words: Received, the general ledger will be counted together when the time comes, and I will pay the master's money together. I thought that there would be no accidents about the house, and my cousin would not want to transfer money by himself, but I didn't expect some episodes to happen in the end.
At about ten o'clock in the morning on Sunday, December 23, my cousin called ** to say that a master was helping me paint the interior wall, and asked me to go to his house to help my sister-in-law cook. I saw that it was too late, so I bought 77 yuan of meat and went to my cousin's house, and asked my cousin-in-law to help me cook, and my cousin-in-law said that my cousin didn't tell her that someone was working, and she was going to eat leftovers at noon. I felt a little embarrassed that the master helped his family work, but he used my cousin's food, so I went to buy a cigarette for 120 yuan and 10 bottles of mineral water for 20 yuan for my cousin in the afternoon. That night, I asked my eldest sister for a bag of cabbage, and on the morning of December 24, I bought 40 yuan of pork belly and a few cabbages to give to my cousin.
When I sent the cabbage, my cousin said that he was going to dig the septic tank for me, but my uncle said that he was tired and wanted to take a day off, so he didn't start the work and dug the septic tank the next day. I didn't think much about it, I just knew that when I went to my cousin's house, there were a bunch of people standing at the gate, all staring at me, and one of the female neighbors asked me what I was in the black bag, and I rode in the electric car and told her that it was cabbage. Unexpectedly, as soon as I got home after delivering cabbage to the supermarket to buy some vegetables, my cousin asked me if I had any kung fu and asked me to help him get a wreath, so I had to ride a scooter to the intersection that my cousin said to gather.
After eating at the place where the white wedding was held, my aunt and I sat in the sun and chatted, and a few people in the village who helped my cousin beat gongs and drums came directly to me and my aunt, called my name, and asked what to do with the water and electricity in this small houseI told them that I planned to take my time and report to the household myself. They said that the current water and electricity are not easy to report, and the cousin's house is next to the small house, and there is a large public house in the middle, and it is best to receive water at the cousin's house. I don't think this is good, and it's not a temporary use of one or two days, a month or two, and if you plan for a long time, you still have to report it yourself. They kept saying that I was stupid, and what did they call me brother, can I still call me brother if I can't connect any water and electricity?It's not that you don't install sub-meters, just pay the utility bills.
While I was walking with the funeral procession, these people who beat gongs and drums surrounded my cousin and talked about water and electricity, saying that my cousin was difficult to ride a tiger, and my aunt was also beside me and asked my cousin to help me get the water and electricity in order, and she wanted to rent that small house for her grandson to study. When I came back, they told me that they had agreed to my cousin, and he promised to let me take over his water and electricity. I don't know the specific details, I just feel that things are in the clouds, and I always feel that things are not so smooth.
I didn't expect to be guessed by myself, the next morning on December 24, I just sent the child to school back, and it was not yet eight o'clock, my cousin called the voice ** and said: "The house is good for you, you go to the water company to report the household yourself, your father should have an old household before, you go and ask yourself, there is one more thing, don't blame your brother for saying you early in the morning, when you are fine, you go to the village to tell the people in the village some messy things to do?".”
was said to be very aggrieved by his cousin, and argued with his cousin in **, telling his cousin that he did not go to the village, nor did he take the initiative to mention anything about the small house to the villagers, he stood there or sat there, and the villagers took the initiative to come to him to say it. The cousin didn't seem to believe it, and hung up the ** very unhappily.
On Monday, December 25, I went to the water company, but I didn't find the name of my deceased father, the staff didn't have an account, and I didn't have a real estate certificate, so I needed to go to the village to open the household certificate, otherwise I couldn't report the household, and the water matter could only come to an end. At about six o'clock in the evening on Tuesday, December 26, 2023, my cousin called ** again, and the tone was very bad, saying that my uncle was going to work in the field the next day, and no one was helping me to work, and my uncle got all the soil of the septic tank to the public position, and asked me to ask the master to work by myself, and buy materials to make the septic tank by myself, otherwise the house is easy to collapse, and there will be ** annoyance at that time, and the position of the public house will be cleaned up, and the cement floor will be hit soon.
I couldn't help but blurt out, "Why is my uncle like this?".He didn't have time to help me the next day, so why did he get all the dirt to the public house?Isn't this harming me?Where can I go to find a master for help temporarily?"My cousin said that he didn't care, he couldn't take care of it, his own family was also building a house, and he had to work overtime at night to make money, and he was so busy that I was so busy that I asked me to find a way to find my own parents or find my aunt and brother-in-law to solve it.
There was no choice but to call ** to tell my mother and eldest sister about it, and my eldest sister refused, saying that she and her brother-in-law were very busy and had no time at all, and her mother and younger brother were so anxious that they came to my aunt's house that night and asked me to go over together to ask my uncle what was the situationLater, my uncle took me to my cousin's house and asked my cousin to help me ask for help, and my cousin took us around, and then found my old cousin's house, and my cousin came up with the idea of asking our uncle and neighbors to help clear the soil, and then asked my cousin's relatives to help build a septic tank, and the matter finally came to an end.
At that time, the old cousin asked my cousin to give our uncle the next day to help with the work, in the **, he told his uncle to make two more dishes after the next day, and drink two cups with the uncle. On Wednesday, December 27th, at about 8 o'clock in the morning and 12 o'clock at noon, I went to the village to see, no one helped to clear the soil, and in the afternoon I came back to see the children to school and went back to see them, and I happened to see the neighbors and uncles helping to clear the soil, and I was also helping to move the larger clods of soil.
I told my cousin that cooking is not my forte, if it doesn't taste good, I'm embarrassed, or go out for a meal, after discussing it I decided to have a meal in a small restaurant nearby, I went to order a few hot pots, at six o'clock in the evening, my cousin urged me to hurry up, saying that they had arrived, and when I passed, they wanted me to toast, but I didn't drink for a long time, I didn't want to drink, their faces seemed to be very unsightly, and they drank a few glasses of mulberry wine, but vomited a few times, maybe they couldn't drink enough, maybe they didn't eat and drink wine, and their heads were a little dizzy。 When checking out, the proprietress said that it was 430 yuan, and she scanned the code to pay 400 yuan.
On December 28, 2023, a master and a small worker helped build a septic tank, built it in the morning, and helped his cousin paint the walls in the afternoon, and bought a bottle of mineral water and two packs of cigarettes for each of them, and the cigarette money was 72 yuan. My cousin said that there were still two days left, and I had to cook at his house for the chefs at noon, so I went to buy two days of vegetables and spent a total of 257$8. In the afternoon, when I helped my cousin move cement bricks, my cousin asked me how many times I transferred money to him at a time, and told him that he had transferred it three times, only the last 3890 yuan had a bill, and the previous transfer of 2000 and 1000 had no bills and had not yet been settled, and my cousin asked me to transfer another 1000 yuan to him, and he went to help me buy slate and cement to build a septic tank, and prepare to hit the cement floor of the small house the next day.
It's the last moment, although there are still 3,000 yuan to settle the account, and then there is an unpleasant scene, it seems that it is not good to end up without transferring money, and I have no choice but to transfer 1,000 yuan to my cousin. I thought I could hit the cement floor the next day, but the next day, on the morning of December 29, I bought 5 packs of cigarettes and a pack of 12 bottles of mineral water for my cousin, spending 110 plus 149 yuan, when I gave the cigarette, I also said that I would hit the cement floor in the afternoon, and at three o'clock in the afternoon, my cousin called the master to come and see, and the master said that it was too late and couldn't be played, so I could only get it the next day.
On December 30, 2023, I got up very early in the morning, because my cousin told me to get up early the night before, to help with the work and carry cement, and I was busy until almost eleven o'clock, and finally got the cement floor in the small house and a small section of the cement floor and threshold at the door, my cousin asked me to help wash the vegetables, and from December 28th to December 30th, I didn't eat at my cousin's house at noon, because I had to pick up the children from school and had no time to eat, he asked me to eat there, and I also told him that I couldn't eat and didn't have time. When I left, I asked my cousin if he wanted to come to help in the afternoon, and my cousin said that my house would collect cement slurry in the afternoon, and his house would have to paint the walls, and asked me to come and lift the cement, so that he could go out and buy things. After going home and eating, I went to help my cousin carry cement again. My cousin said that he would wait for the ground to dry after the concrete floor was ready, and he had bought the wooden door, and at the back of the house, he asked me to buy something to install it myself.
At about three or four o'clock in the afternoon, I saw my sister-in-law washing fruit outside the window to eat, she also asked me if I could eat, I was working and didn't want to eat, my sister-in-law chatted with me casually for a few days, I solemnly told my sister-in-law, so that if they don't have time to work during the day, they will take the time to settle the accounts at night, and see if I am still close to their money, how much is the difference?My sister-in-law said that I didn't have time to settle accounts, and then I saw my cousin sitting at the table playing with my mobile phone, so I ran to him and sat down again, and asked him to settle the accounts.
I went on, and he looked like he was ignoring it, saying that he had other things to do at night, and he was fighting with others in front of me, and that scene was as if I asked him to borrow money and he didn't want to borrow it on purpose. In fact, my cousin helped me hire a master to work, helped me buy materials, I took the initiative to settle accounts with him, but he pushed back, I looked directly into his eyes, he looked at me, his eyes were very evasive, he didn't dare to look at my eyes, I don't know what they are thinking in their hearts
In any case, although this small house has no water or electricity, it can be regarded as built, and I still have to thank my cousin, all the people in the village who helped to worry and talk, and my family for their support. Today is the last day of 2023, I hope that all the bad things will disappear, tomorrow is the beginning of the new year, I wish the new year all the best!