So much so that my husband once said that I should learn more Xi from his eldest sister.
How far can the eldest sister go?You may not believe it!
One year, the door lock of my eldest sister's house was broken, and she went out to buy a lock cylinder and came back, so she was stunned to change it herself.
Usually, when her water pipe is broken and needs to replace the valve or something, she will use tools such as pipe pliers to replace it.
In addition to the "electricity" at home, the eldest sister will not fiddle, of course, it is still possible to change the light bulb.
If in a family, the hostess does all the work that should be done by the man, does it mean that the man in the family is a little inert?That's true, in addition to the eldest sister's husband, he will commute to and from work on time every day.
amateur", not to mention changing water pipes and repairing door locks, he is not even very good at cooking.
In the words of the eldest sister, one thing he only does every day is to sit in front of the computer every day and stare at **.
My brother-in-law's work is "12 days off and 48 hours" all year round, and there are no weeks, so that most of the time is spent staring at home.
But the point is that he doesn't have any money-making minds, except for staring at the market with his eyes.
According to the eldest sister, over the years, her family has been trapped in ** money, not to mention that there is also money.
Thirty, four hundred thousand.
Oh, pull it away, pull it back.
That day, my husband drove me and my eldest sister and niece to the countryside to play.
On the way, you pass by a "water point" (i.e., natural mountain spring water) where many people pick up water.
The eldest sister came prepared, specially prepared a big bucket, and took a full bucket.
At that time, I stepped forward and tried to carry it, oh my god, I really can't lift it, it's so heavy!
It was my husband who carried a bucket full of water to the car.
On the way, I learned that in the past, a bucket full of water like this was moved upstairs by the eldest sister herself.
I was surprised: "Why don't you call my brother-in-law to go downstairs and carry it"!
The eldest sister said with a disdainful face: "As far as his helplessness is concerned, it is better for me to do it myself, besides, it is not enough for me to waste my saliva if I find him to do some work!."”
In front of my eldest sister, I was embarrassed to refute my husband, in fact, I said silently in my heart
Cut!Want to pua me?I don't want to be beautiful!”
I think that at the beginning, when I first got married, I was like my eldest sister, stupid, as long as I could do and could do things, I never bothered my husband.
For example, a bag of 20 catties of noodles is carried upstairs, although it is a bit heavy, but I will carry the noodles one floor and take a break, and eventually I can carry it into the house.
If the kitchen is not draining, I will find the reason and make it smooth.
But after a long time, I found that my husband didn't care about things at home.
Even if I told him that something was broken in the house and I couldn't figure it out and let him see it, he would delay it for a few days.
On the contrary, if a cloth in his mother-in-law's house is broken, he can take the initiative to find out and repair it immediately.
Then one day, I took out a bag of 20 catties of rice from the lower room and carried it upstairs.
It happened that the neighbor bumped into it and shouted:
Oh my God, why don't you wait for your husband to get off work and let him carry him upstairs?In my family, my husband has always done such things!”
I think about it, what people say makes sense, I'm so reckless, but my husband is used to having less sense of responsibility!
Therefore, since then, I have not shown myself to be capable everywhere, and I have to let him do the work that my husband should do.
Nowadays, I leave the manual work such as carrying cat litter upstairs to my husband.
Now, he asked me to learn Xi from my eldest sister, does this mean that I want to go back to the pre-liberation period?I don't think I'm so stupid!
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