Shi Xiaosheng: A veteran player who has been fighting in the Internet industry for ten years, focusing on the development of the side business industry, and inspiring more ordinary people to achieve more side jobs to increase income.
It is said that "the soldiers and horses have not moved, the grain and grass go first", and those who want to do a side business, in fact, the preparation of thinking and cognition is his grain and grass.
And a change in thinking is always the root of a change in action. And how to run a side hustle, the essence of thinking used is the same as how to succeed, that is, not satisfied, dare to pay, resist risks, refuse to settle down, and put a long line to catch big fish.
Crazy Brother Yang, everyone is familiar with it.
Brother Xiaoyang's name is Zhang Qingyang, and he was born in Lu'an, Anhui Province on February 27, 1995. There is also a twin brother at home, because his parents work outside all the year round, and the two brothers are left-behind children, when they were in junior high school, they got up early every day to cook porridge, and then pedaled a bicycle and walked six or seven kilometers to school, in order to save money as much as possible.
In 2015, Brother Xiao Yang came into contact with the Internet platform for the first time and registered an account with the nickname of "Crazy Brother Yang", which opened the road of short ** creation.
From the beginning of the left-behind children to work with their brother in the Guangzhou factory to become an Internet celebrity, along the way continue to innovate and create, not satisfied with the status quo, now, Brother Xiao Yang has more than 100 million fans on Douyin, it can be said that he can be called China's first Internet celebrity in the past two years, with a sharp style, funny and harmonious family painting style in the Internet to attract countless fans, and later established three sheep group in Hefei, and incubate branches and bases throughout the country. It can be said that the side hustle has really become a big business.
In fact, this is a typical example of developing a side hustle because of dissatisfaction and eventually succeeding.
In our real life, many people are ashamed to engage in a side hustle, thinking that it is a very shameful thing, and people who really have the determination and perseverance to engage in a side hustle to make money basically do not value the so-called "face" so much. Therefore, if we think about this phenomenon in a different way, we can also see a truth: "The more mediocre people are, the more they attach importance to their so-called dignity and face", and many excellent people are more "open-minded" in their growth process, and they can also rationally see others' attitudes and evaluations towards themselves.
This is because mediocre people tend to value conditional self-esteem, while successful people pursue factual self-esteem.
Can you think about it?If Brother Xiao Yang is shy to shoot **, worried that filming that kind of funny and sharp ** will be said, laughed at or even scolded by others, then is he still today?
The so-called conditional self-esteem refers to the self-esteem generated by the evaluation of others, and he is easily influenced by the outside world. Therefore, the self-esteem of this kind of person is very unstable. When the outside world gives him high praise, he will be very satisfied, on the contrary, when the outside world is not good, he will have a strong inferiority complex, and this mentality will often develop into annoyance, shame and anger, and even make people decadent and depressed.
People who face up to the facts and have self-esteem, they are more familiar with the evaluation from the outside world, they are very clear about their own positioning, what they want to do, and they will not be easily disturbed by the rhetoric of outsiders. Generally speaking, they know how many pounds and taels they have, and they will neither float up because of the high praise given by outsiders, nor will they sink because they are criticized or criticized by some people. All their actions come from the question "What kind of person do I want to be" and "What do I want to get?".rather than always thinking about "what do others think of me when I do this" and "as long as it can satisfy everyone" way of doing things.
The state of self-esteem is different, and the way of behavior is also different, forming two completely different life trajectories, those who don't care what others think, how to say, and who are dedicated to exploring how to develop this thing, belong to the category of people who have de facto self-esteem. Their execution is stronger, their direction is firmer, and they are not negatively affected, which kind of people can be said to be born to achieve things.
I'm not saying that those who engage in side hustles are all successful people, and those who don't engage in side hustles are losers, but that people who engage in side hustles must have more success mentality, because they are not easily satisfied, ambitious, restless, and have relatively strong energy in subjective actions, so often such people have a higher probability of success than ordinary people.
There will be times when you ride the wind and waves, and you will sail straight to the sea.
I am born to be useful, and my daughter will come back when I am gone."
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