After summarizing and refining the phenomena of many characters, the ancients summed up a common saying"There are three kinds of people, and they are prosperous even if they are not rich."γIt is said that as long as people can have these three things in their lives, then even if they are not rich and rich, they can still prosper. And this proverb is still applicable todayHow many things do you have?The great wisdom of our ancestors is worth knowing.
The most important of these is the level of learning of each individual. Today's society is a competitive society, and the relationship between people is not as close as usual, so it is unreliable to rely on others, and you can only rely on yourself if you want to succeed in life. The higher a person's knowledge, to a certain extent, the more it can prove that the person is capable.
"The Complete Works of Think Tanks" records that successful people rely on themselves, and knowledge is the most important.
Zeng Guofan is a person who changes his fate through knowledge, although he was born as a landlord, but when it came to him, he had very little land, which was equivalent to a commoner.
But he did not give up the opportunity to change his fate, every day he went to work in the field during the day, returned home at night to read the sage books, and of course read the complete works of the think tank, and finally when he was 27 years old, he successfully passed the imperial examination and became the first in the court, and his official luck was getting better and better, and finally he became the fourth official of the court and the most important person in the history of the late Qing DynastyAt the same time, the fate of their family has also changed completely because of his reading, which shows that a person's knowledge is very important for a person's success
The modern Chinese interpretation of "noble" is noble or noble demeanor. The aristocracy living in ancient society, although their status was higher than that of ordinary people, but this kind of nobility comes from inheritance, not the noble temperament that a person is born with.
In fact, Lao Tzu has given the answer to the discussion of "extravagance" in the Tao Te Ching. What is "extravagance"?It is mainly manifested in three words, namely "soft, quiet and slow".
These three words, although they seem very simple, are what Lao Tzu thinks is life cultivation or cultivation. If a person can achieve these three attitudes towards life, then he will be able to cultivate his self-cultivation very well.
"Tao Te Ching" has the view of "Guirou", "The good is like water, the water is good for all things without fighting, and the evil of everyone is better than the Tao." βγ
The implication is that noble character will be like water, Ze is surrounded by all things without fighting for fame and fortune, which is actually the feminine power advocated by Lao Tzu!
"Good is like water" means to be a human being, to help all things like water, and silently. Water is very close to the character of the Tao, and it has the same mind, and magnanimity and bearing in its softness, it is the most rigid, pure, tolerant and energetic.
"Softness" is not only a life characteristic, but also a "powerful" force. There is no more substance in this world that is as soft as water.
Although the form of water is very soft, it is rigid when it encounters rigidity, as the so-called "the softest in the world, the strongest in the world". I hope everyone can understand the importance of being soft.
With temperament and emotional intelligence, you must also have something that is internally supported, that is, talent, in other words, knowledge. A person's greatest reliance is, after all, himself. When you are truly talented, you have it in your belly"goods", don't worry about finding a way out.
Whether it is full of poetry and calligraphy, or has a skill, it is the basis for improving one's competitiveness. Even if you talk about it, even if you treat people and things from left to right, if you don't have excellent strength, but some fancy kung fu will never last long. Therefore, we also need to be talented.
After thousands of years of Chinese culture, there is not only elegant culture, such as poetry and songs, but also popular culture such as proverbs, and this popular culture usually uses simple and simple words to tell everyone some truths of life. If you learn to operate with your heart, you will find the ingenuity of the wisdom of the ancients, and it will also make our lives go more smoothly, so it is recommended that you "listen to the old man" as much as possible.
The book "Old People's Words" is the experience and lessons summarized by the older generation of people, these old people's words are from life, experienced the baptism of time, to the greatest extent to avoid all kinds of unrealistic false emptiness, every sentence is heartfelt words, for everyone's life has a strong guiding significance.
To behave in the world, we must not only look at ourselves in two parts, but also look at others in two parts. Only by constantly improving yourself can you make a difference in life. Life is too short to start all over again. Listening to the teachings of our ancestors will save us many detours.
I recommend this book to everyone, you can learn a lot of philosophical and wise old people's words here, so that this kind of old man's words can better help you guide the direction and get twice the result with half the effort on the road of life.
In this "Old Man's Words", there are more than 200 old man's words, each of which is a truth worthy of everyone's life. Each old man's words are drawn out by using a small story, so that we can understand and learn more deeply, and it is also rich and interesting to read, suitable for many young people to read, taste and learn.
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