Qingwen, beautiful and intelligent, merry and dexterous, but it ended in tragedy. Everyone sighs that his fate is ill-fated, but when he thinks about it, Qingwen's sorrow, isn't there also a self-error?
Qingwen's death stemmed from being expelled from Jiafu. However, this expulsion process has lasted intermittently for four times since the seventy-fourth episode of "Confusing Treachery and Copying and Inspecting the Grand View Garden, Yagusuke Putting an End to Ning Guofu". Cao Xueqin cherishes ink like gold, and she is unique in this matter, which shows its importance.
In the seventy-four episodes, Wang Shanbao's family told Mrs. Wang about Qingwen's black state. When Mrs. Wang saw Qingwen, she "didn't feel that she aroused the fire of Fang Cai", and sneered: "What a beauty!."It's like a sick Shih Tzu. ”
Hearing this, Qingwen knew that someone was plotting. However, when asked about Baoyu's condition, Qingwen refused to tell the truth, and only said: "I don't go to Baoyu's room, and I don't often be with Baoyu, so I can't know, so I only ask the attacker Musk Yue." As soon as these words came out, Mrs. Wang was even more displeased.
Here, Qingwen's mistake lies in her frivolous state. The hairpins are loose, the shirt is draped, and there is a legacy of spring sleep. Such frivolity, is it what a maid should have?Mrs. Strange Dao Wang was displeased when she saw it.
The second Qingwen revealed her shortcomings. When it comes to Jia's mother, how can Mrs. Wang not feel guilty?There has long been a suspicion between Jia's mother and Mrs. Wang's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and Mrs. Wang has suppressed many people who Jia's mother valued, such as Daiyu and Qingwen. Qingwen's words undoubtedly fell into the net.
By the seventy-seventh time, Qingwen was seriously ill and expelled from Jiafu, and died tragically at a relative's house, which made people sigh. However, if Qingwen can restrain herself a little, how can she suffer this fate?
Therefore, although Qingwen's sorrow has Mrs. Wang's fault, it also has its own mistakes. Isn't it a mistake to play a bad card?There are five points in Qingwen's mistakes, and it is advisable to think deeply about them in order to avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.
First, the position is high and nothing happens, and it is embarrassing. Mother Jia sent Qingwen to Baoyu, and then Baoyu's side, attacked the people Si personal affairs, Musk Yue and others took care of chores, and the little girl was called. Qingwen, except for the fine work of mending the peacock fur, has done little. Receiving a salary without fulfilling one's duties, the first rush of layoffs.
Second, the leader of fate, it is unknown that it is Mrs. Wang. Qingwen thinks that she has the favor of Jia's mother and Baoyu, so she can act recklessly. However, there is no respect for the superiors, and it is mean to the subordinates, and it is a big mistake. The mantra "get out" will eventually lead to its own consequences. I don't know how to hide it, and I blindly show it, Mrs. Wang has long been dissatisfied with it, and when the villain provokes it, she wants to get rid of it quickly.
3. Worry-free consciousness and trouble. Qingwen fights the favor of Jia's mother and Baoyu, and she doesn't know how thick the sky is. reconciled with Baoyu, but tore the fan for fun, regardless of the feelings of others. Cuteness can also be "made", in contrast, it is more measured to attack people. The same is true in the workplace, where the more pampering, the higher the expectations and the envy. It is even more undesirable to lose your temper because you are favored.
Fourth, if you are not friendly, you will take the blame. The one who scolded the most was Wang Xifeng, followed by Qingwen. An example of this can be seen in "Dream of Red Mansions". Treating subordinates well is the work of a wise man, and Liu Chuanzhi also admonished. When Qingwen was in power, she sarcastically mocked Xiaohong, but Xiaohong later became Sister Feng's celebrity. If Qingwen is not expelled, it is difficult to guarantee that Xiaohong will not sue for black.
Fifth, it is simple and not wrong, but it is easy to suffer. Qingwen is innocent and unintentional, but she likes to talk nonsense, and she doesn't know the depths. However, everyone has to bear the consequences for not being sensible. Going to university is not only to acquire knowledge, but also to mature into a sound society. Qingwen's sorrow lies in the fact that she is mentally unsound and is still a giant baby and the like.
Good cards are bad, Qingwen's mistake has five points, in order to avoid repeating the mistakes of the past, it is advisable to think deeply
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